Relationships #78479 monogamy

[AskSatanOperator]

It seems to me that polygamy and polyamory are becoming more common than monogamy. I am a monogamous person, and I wonder if this will become harder to achieve. Is monogamy a real thing? Is it weird that I also wouldn’t be able to accept it if my partner had a promiscuous past, having sex frequently? I don’t mean past relationships, but rather a lifestyle of having sex with many women. I would find that off-putting. For me, sex is about love, emotional connection, and deep intimacy. Knowing that a partner shared it casually with others would conflict with my values and how I view relationships. Should I try to learn to accept this, even if it doesn’t feel right to me? Realistically, what are my chances of finding a monogamous husband who also doesn’t watch porn or OnlyFans? Is such a monogamous relationship normal and realistic, being exclusive to each other, or should I accept that it might not be possible or is less likely and give up?

 

[Henu the Great]

There is no factual data about what amount of populace is this or that kind. The best we know is that there are different people. Your best bet is to use Magick to find someone you truly like to have a connection with, without compromises. There are people like you out there, for sure.

 

[Karnonnos [TG]]

Monogamy is what most people prefer by instinct and is more suitable for most people at each stage they are at. It is not unnatural. You can do love spells to find any partner like this.

Although people rarely talk about this, a lot of women do find it unnerving if men are promiscuous, and some dislike men having prior sexual partners. I have had female friends like that. That's just a desire for exclusivity and stability.

However, one also has to be realistic. You cannot always expect most 16 to 30 year old andrapoda under the control of hormones to be strictly monogamous in every way. Be angry and shake the house down (in a proper way - not in a very dangerous to them way with your powers), but know their limits. The majority of men were born into a world where porn is everywhere, and it has been impressed on them since boyhood. Compulsive use of this during an active sexual relationship is not really acceptable, however.

 

[the_eye_of_anubis]

There's nothing wrong with you being monogamous and be sure that there are many men out there who wish to have the same things as you.

Regarding men having a sexual past, it depends: it's normal to have had past relationship (and sex, ofc), but if we're talking about those kind of men who would even fvck the holes in the walls, well that's a bit disgusting. (I met someone like that... I still remember the sense of nausea I had.)

You can do surely workings to attract a suitable partner with whom you can share a nice bond.