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I've been trying to find a relationship for many years. I was not able to find anyone at all to be with yet. I live in a very Christian town and its hard to meet people. I dont like the idea of sleeping around with many people having no connection at all. I'd rather find a genuine relationship. Tried dating apps, got a dating coach, did a working to request being with a demoness a few years ago and nothing worked. I know masturbation is the obvious answer but it does nothing for the desire of being with an actual person. I heard getting a prostitute might help but its very pricey, very illegal where i am, and there's no way of knowing how clean they are. The only people that have showed romantic interest in me were of different races which I can't be with either. The few I managed to find of my race were just incompatible or didnt date people of the same race which I know is dumb but that's what I'm dealing with. I feel stuck and lonely. My questions are:

Is there a way to get rid of these negative emotions? Feelings of loneliness, desperation, wanting to be loved? If getting my desired result hasn't worked yet what can I do?

If I pay for a prostitute, even though its illegal, would the gods protect me from legal reprocussion? I'm assuming no since I'd be knowingly and actively doing something illegal which would be putting myself in a risky situation on purpose.

I want very much to have a happy and healthy relationship which follows Zeus's rules. Please help and thank you
 
Do the love spell and try to not care at any other point a day, have no desire just let life happen. Most people get a relationship when they are not "expecting" it and not want it, and when people get into a relationship when they really want it it'll probably turn out bad.
 
Greetings, Brother!

Here is said this might come from vows given in past lives:


If this is your case. Either do magic to find the person that you gave vow to if you wish to keep it and meet them again, or if they did not reincarnate ask Gods to lead you to Hell to find them on the astral for astral sex or just stay loyal on Earth if this is your decision. Or, if it is your decision, free yourself from the vow with the work provided.

If it is not your case, anyway do cleansing given there with the respective affirmation. You might choose to do it for 360 days or if less, then until you meet your person. Or 360 cleansing + 360 work to attract the right person of your dream. Or, again, until you meet one.
 
nothing worked.

Is there a way to get rid of these negative emotions? Feelings of loneliness, desperation, wanting to be loved? If getting my desired result hasn't worked yet what can I do?
I will try to give you some more words than "keep trying" answer as you seem quite in trouble.
First of all I al sorry for you, loneliness may be hard sometimes.

Have you considered that you may be holding yourself back from a healty relationship ?
Being unloved in childhood, may create emotional loops in one's mind leading to not willing to be loved or appreciated, because this is the only state of being known since the person was a kid. Those feelings may be very deep and you may be unaware of them, consciously, but they affect your choices and also your Aura and Magick will be affected by your deepest emotions, resentment or sadness about yourself.
You sound like a person who suffered this, it is quite common. Being SS/Zevist may bring those emotions to the surface thanks to Meditation, in a process of healing or cleaning, and this may be the case.

I know I am telling you one of the more difficult things to do in life, that is : loving yourself.
When you reconsider, change and uplift your inner feelings about yourself, it will be easier for you to attract a partner because you won't have a voice in your mind telling you "you are unworthy that person, leave her go" or the such.

In the event I am right, and you will bring those feelings out, feel free to talk, vent out on here. It is important being listened by another human being here.
Just try to talk to yourself in trance like you talk to "you as a kid", ask yourself how you have been loved, and see if this affects your current life. Most likely yes.





If I pay for a prostitute, even though its illegal, would the gods protect me from legal reprocussion?
I don't know that, sorry.
However, delving into prostitution might expose you to very negative energies - sex may create spiritual ties to the wrong person, in those cases.
 
Thank you for the responses. This is my post. Idk how to respond anonymously so if someone can tell me how to do that, that would be great.


There isn't anything in my childhood I can think of that would cause issues with romance. I do remember first wanting a relationship at a very early age though. Nothing due to a lack of love at the time. Perhaps something left over from a past life?


I did have a very bad experience when I first became a zevist. I cant go into full detail since I'm using my account to respond to this thread. In my nievety I performed a ritual to Zeus requesting a succubus as a partner. I wasnt aware I could be denied for various reasons. I thought I was in a relationship with a demoness for a few months. It was my first real relationship and I took it very seriously. I did make a vow saying I'd be with them and only them forever. After a lot of very direct messages from the gods that even my denial couldn't dismiss, I finally found out she wasnt real. My request to be with a succubus was denied. Finding out she wasnt real crushed me. I never really got over it. I accept she wasnt real and didnt exist at all, but in my low moments of loneliness memories of her are the first thing that usually pops up in my mind and I always get emotional thinking of that time. I did later learn that it was a mix of me feeling my own energy at first that made me believe she was real and also at some point an enemy ET caught wind of it and did things like give me a fake name for her when I would try to communicate with her via pendulum and ouija, also they aided my stubbornness when I was in denial of the truth she never existed. Those two factors are why I was super convinced she was real. Luckily the gods were very persistent to give me the message loud and clear


I cant say that moment alone is the whole reason I haven't found a partner yet. Again there are life factors out of my control as stated in my original post. Its just the only thing I can think of that may have a part in me failing to find someone or it might not. Just my best guess.
 

Al Jilwah: Chapter IV

"It is my desire that all my followers unite in a bond of unity, lest those who are without prevail against them." - Shaitan

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