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Hi everyone I need help on this ,
I travelled to a next town (really far from where i live) my brother asked me to come help him back his things and move back home, over there I have two brothers ( My blood brother same mother same father and the other is only from the father side different mother).
I got there and my brother from the father side took me to a certain lady I had no awareness she existed at first but when we got there, the conversation btwn my brother and the lady made me understood that she was dating my blood brother ( same mother same father) but due to some misunderstanding they broke up.

On the second visit with my brother (same father different mother) the lady called me babe, I intentionally pretended I didn't hear because I wasn't sure it was me . She took my number at the spot.

Later that night she called my brother ( same father different mother) told him he wanted to speak to me , we had normally conversation but I knew what she was up to , truth be told I was also interested .
The following day I went there with the same brother then I told him to give as time and space that I wanted to talk to the lady pravitely he agreed.
I moved with with lady we find a spot to sit,in front of a school building behind the schools football field, per the girl reactions I knew she was interested in me I didn't make it hard for her we started talking but she couldn't look me in the eyes she was shaking and I feel her nervousness.
After 2mnt we stood on the football field we hugged then I told her I was going home she wanted to see me off we got a place very silent then we just started kissing but something strange happen a dog was bagging at us for no reason it was around 10pm that way if I'm not mistaken .
Story cut short my brother ( same father different mother) saw the connection and told me it was okay to have sex with her since I was interested i agreed to his discision though I wasn't straint in my head because she was my blood brother's(same mother same father) ex girlfriend .
We had sex in my brothers room (same father different mother) .

After that we feel in love I really love her she's a good girl I want to keep her she also doesn't wanna let me go we really love each other but it seems we need to keep it a secret because my mother won't approve the relationship and the lady's family also won't approve the relationship and also I don't know how my blood brother will feel If he finds out .
Most important TOZ has some restrictions concerning people we can have sex with (eg not to have sex with a married woman etc) please is mine a restriction too


Please I need advice
 
ToZ has no restrictions against 'sex with a married woman'. Where is that in the sexual laws?

The issue here is consequences and not messing up a marriage, making lives worse for children or inviting a vengeful husband's wrath. But there is no THOU SHALT in that situation. We leave this up to judgement of an adult. Can be a situation of FAFO, you may walk away scot free depending on luck, but you should consider acting ethically in situations like that. Failure to do so invites scrutiny, needless conflict and possible severe consequences.

It's not exactly great of a dilemma to be having sex with your brother's ex-girlfriend and risk the wrath of your brother. He may feel some way about this and be enraged, but she is also his ex and NOT his current partner... this is your private life. It has nothing to do with us. (Also, I don't really understand why you had sex in your half brother's room or why his permission on this is important...)

If you ask me, you want to be careful with her as well. The speed she was determined to go with you sounds off and is not normal for a woman, like she has an agenda against your brother.
 
Hi everyone I need help on this ,
I travelled to a next town (really far from where i live) my brother asked me to come help him back his things and move back home, over there I have two brothers ( My blood brother same mother same father and the other is only from the father side different mother).
I got there and my brother from the father side took me to a certain lady I had no awareness she existed at first but when we got there, the conversation btwn my brother and the lady made me understood that she was dating my blood brother ( same mother same father) but due to some misunderstanding they broke up.

On the second visit with my brother (same father different mother) the lady called me babe, I intentionally pretended I didn't hear because I wasn't sure it was me . She took my number at the spot.

Later that night she called my brother ( same father different mother) told him he wanted to speak to me , we had normally conversation but I knew what she was up to , truth be told I was also interested .
The following day I went there with the same brother then I told him to give as time and space that I wanted to talk to the lady pravitely he agreed.
I moved with with lady we find a spot to sit,in front of a school building behind the schools football field, per the girl reactions I knew she was interested in me I didn't make it hard for her we started talking but she couldn't look me in the eyes she was shaking and I feel her nervousness.
After 2mnt we stood on the football field we hugged then I told her I was going home she wanted to see me off we got a place very silent then we just started kissing but something strange happen a dog was bagging at us for no reason it was around 10pm that way if I'm not mistaken .
Story cut short my brother ( same father different mother) saw the connection and told me it was okay to have sex with her since I was interested i agreed to his discision though I wasn't straint in my head because she was my blood brother's(same mother same father) ex girlfriend .
We had sex in my brothers room (same father different mother) .

After that we feel in love I really love her she's a good girl I want to keep her she also doesn't wanna let me go we really love each other but it seems we need to keep it a secret because my mother won't approve the relationship and the lady's family also won't approve the relationship and also I don't know how my blood brother will feel If he finds out .
Most important TOZ has some restrictions concerning people we can have sex with (eg not to have sex with a married woman etc) please is mine a restriction too


Please I need advice
I recommend that you be careful, as this may make your blood brother jealous.

Jealousy can cause murder, not necessarily physical, for example with the help of black magic.

At least if a girl is beautiful and another man has strong feelings for her, you can expect anything, in any case, the consequences can be unpredictable, including the behavior and further actions of your brother.

If you look at the practice of criminal courts in different countries, a fairly large number of murders occur because of jealousy of girls, especially in the 21st century.
 

Al Jilwah: Chapter IV

"It is my desire that all my followers unite in a bond of unity, lest those who are without prevail against them." - Shaitan

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