Relationships #77502 The problem with the past

[AskSatanOperator]

I have anxiety and a problem, and I really need your advice, I have a girlfriend whom I love very much, we met her at the beginning of last year, but we both began to understand that we love each other around the summer, before that in May I talked to one girl who liked me, and it turned out that she sucked me off, I apologized to her many times and said that nothing would work out between us, I seemed to say that everything was fine, but in the end she told the whole school what happened, and still, as I understand it, she cannot let me go, she and her friends are extremely toxic, they have previously written various nasty things to their friends' exes, and I'm afraid that if they find out that I have a girlfriend, they will look for her social networks and write to her, I also found out that they tried to make a love spell on me with candles, but it did not work, I really regret that this happened at all, and if I could go back and fix everything, I would do it, now I don't know what to do, I'm afraid that they will start writing to my girlfriend and telling this, I recently saw an advert asking for help with any questions using magic, and I'm thinking of contacting them. Maybe you have some advice? I apologize if there are any mistakes or unclear moments in the text, I am writing from a translator

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

Tell your girlfriend about this situation so if someone does contact her and tell her something, she already knows the truth. The first thing that somebody hears is usually more believed than the second thing, so have her hear your side of it first. Then she also will know that you are not trying to hide anything and not trying to lie about anything.

 

[tempuser]

Tell your girlfriend about this situation so if someone does contact her and tell her something, she already knows the truth. The first thing that somebody hears is usually more believed than the second thing, so have her hear your side of it first. Then she also will know that you are not trying to hide anything and not trying to lie about anything.

I'm afraid that this might break her, that she'll be hurt, and I'm afraid that we might break up because of this.

 

[Ĥl·lĥæ]

You don't know how to take responsibility.
You sound like a woman when you say "She ended up sucking me off"
I hope your girlfriend doesn't forgive you.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

It makes you look more guilty if you are trying to hide something.

 

[Karnonnos [TG]]

You don't know how to take responsibility.
You sound like a woman when you say "She ended up sucking me off"
I hope your girlfriend doesn't forgive you.

Well, he is just a kid in school, not a man. Most people lack the ability to say no at that age. If he was a 30 year old that would be different.

OP you either have to be honest to her or do some sort of binding but that's not realistic with multiple people at this point.

 

[tempuser]

You don't know how to take responsibility.
You sound like a woman when you say "She ended up sucking me off"
I hope your girlfriend doesn't forgive you.

I do not deny my guilt, this is probably my biggest mistake that I remember, we were just starting to communicate and did not dating officially, and we are not dating officially now, but we confessed our feelings to each other

 

[tempuser]

I am experiencing strange feelings now, I am very ashamed and feel bad about the act that I committed, I thought for some time and now sometimes I think that it would be better to just commit suicide, she is the first girl that I truly loved and I don’t want to break up with her

 

[Karnonnos [TG]]

I do not deny my guilt, this is probably my biggest mistake that I remember, we were just starting to communicate and did not dating officially, and we are not dating officially now, but we confessed our feelings to each other

You were not even with her. So why feel guilty?

She cannot claim ownership over you before you even dated, and the other girl's friends if they cause trouble are just instigating for drama. Ignore trouble making girls.

You are also extremely young. Stop agonizing over this. Guilt is of the enemy.