Other #79281 What if I were like that?

[Ask Satya Operator]

I know I can’t change my life, and I know that overthinking doesn’t help, but I can’t stop wondering what things would be like if they were different. I’ve known this girl for a long time, and she seems to have everything. She’s tall, has a beautiful body, is the beauty queen of our state, has long wavy hair, is naturally gorgeous, plays several instruments, is rich, and doesn’t even need to work. Now she’s dating a very wealthy guy from my city.

I know she’s a different race than me (she’s Black and I’m white), but I can’t help thinking how lucky I would be if I had been born like her, living her life. I’m short, I don’t know how to play any instruments even though I’ve always wanted to, but my parents never had the money for that — and when they did, they invested in my siblings, not in me. I tried to learn what I could online, but it never went beyond what anyone else could easily pick up.

I have to work hard for everything I want, and I don’t have the best body or the most beautiful face. In other words, everything just feels miserable sometimes. I even end up hating myself because part of me feels like it’s somehow my fault. I’ve become a withdrawn person. I can’t seem to have big ambitions anymore — just the hope of living a life without constant stress and anxiety, being able to afford the basics. I keep telling myself that I deserve good things, but deep down, I don’t really believe it.

I just wanted to let this out somewhere, because I know I can’t snap my fingers and change everything — and even if magic were real, that wouldn’t guarantee miracles either.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

I know I can’t change my life, and I know that overthinking doesn’t help, but I can’t stop wondering what things would be like if they were different. I’ve known this girl for a long time, and she seems to have everything. She’s tall, has a beautiful body, is the beauty queen of our state, has long wavy hair, is naturally gorgeous, plays several instruments, is rich, and doesn’t even need to work. Now she’s dating a very wealthy guy from my city.

I know she’s a different race than me (she’s Black and I’m white), but I can’t help thinking how lucky I would be if I had been born like her, living her life. I’m short, I don’t know how to play any instruments even though I’ve always wanted to, but my parents never had the money for that — and when they did, they invested in my siblings, not in me. I tried to learn what I could online, but it never went beyond what anyone else could easily pick up.

I have to work hard for everything I want, and I don’t have the best body or the most beautiful face. In other words, everything just feels miserable sometimes. I even end up hating myself because part of me feels like it’s somehow my fault. I’ve become a withdrawn person. I can’t seem to have big ambitions anymore — just the hope of living a life without constant stress and anxiety, being able to afford the basics. I keep telling myself that I deserve good things, but deep down, I don’t really believe it.

I just wanted to let this out somewhere, because I know I can’t snap my fingers and change everything — and even if magic were real, that wouldn’t guarantee miracles either.

I understand how you’re feeling, I don’t want you to lose hope though. You can feel beautiful, create art, date someone that treats you right.

Although, there’s a saying that you can have it all, but not all at once. Build up to it, and our path and the path of life will get you there step by step. Start working on your finances first, then once you are settled financially, learn one instrument, enjoy this and don’t look for results only the beauty (and the pain) of the path.

You can build up to a beautiful life even if you don’t have it right now, just trust and believe in yourself and always hold yourself to very high esteem.

Transformation is possible and real and miracles do happen, they do take time, consistency, hard work, dedication, positive thought and belief.

Then once you build up a very beautiful life your children as well as you would live a full life like the girl you envy.

This is the reality of the situation, however never lose hope in the path and take daily steps even if small to get there, the momentum compounds and the transformation is real.

This is what you desire, and you want it so bad because you’ll have it in the future.

 

[AFODO]

Magic is real and you can change your life with enough spiritual and material effort. Everyone is different, everyone starts differently, and even without magic, one's life can tremendously change.

 

[the_eye_of_anubis]

What you wrote really struck me, because it felt like I was hearing myself from the outside.

I can understand how you feel: I too am always comparing myself to others, never feeling comfortable in my own body. I spent a long time wishing I were someone else, and sometimes I still do. Less so now, but it still happens. I just want to say a couple of things: magic is VERY real, but it's not like they show it in the movies. You don't get things just by asking for them. Magic is based on science, and energies need a path to follow in order to manifest. You have to create that path yourself. There are so many things you can do to improve your situation: for example you can do a Venus square to enhance your beauty (the planet Venus rules beauty), but you can also do concrete things like going to the gym, do skincare and hair routine, drink a lot of water... things that are related to self-care will improve your apperance.

Don't compare yourself negatively to other people: comparison kills. There will always be someone who is more beautiful than us, more skilled etc... the secret is to just not care and to follow your own way.

Although, there’s a saying that you can have it all, but not all at once. Build up to it, and our path and the path of life will get you there step by step. Start working on your finances first, then once you are settled financially, learn one instrument, enjoy ndthis and don’t look for results only the beauty (and the pain) of the path.

You can build up to a beautiful life even if you don’t have it right now, just trust and believe in yourself and always hold yourself to very high esteem.

I agree with this piece of advice. You can for example program your aura with green energy to attract more money for you to spend on what you like or use the runes to find a good job (FEHU, WUNJO and SOWILO are fine. I used them and it worked).

Moreover have faith in your workings: if you do them and deep down you believe that they will not work, you are literally self-sabotaging yourself. The mind is powerful and if you have a decent power in your soul, thoughts start to manifest into reality and can turn your spell useless.


Take care dear, things will get better, trust me!!