Why am i not crying

[One Wire Phenomenon]

So we have lost our grandpa a few months ago and I did not cry. We lost another family member
a few weeks ago and i did not cry.Today we lost one of our pets and i was the only one who did not cry. Its been so many times now that one would expect me to cry but i doen't. Yes i feel sad and i want to cry with my family but i just cannot. Does anybody know why this is the case?
I feel that my mom thinks im cold and i doen't care about it because im not as sad as they are.
I doen't do so good when someone is very emotional and i must be the one to comfort them. If i take my brother for example he can really emotionally support that person but i cannot.

 

[Henu the Great]

So we have lost our grandpa a few months ago and I did not cry. We lost another family member
a few weeks ago and i did not cry.Today we lost one of our pets and i was the only one who did not cry. Its been so many times now that one would expect me to cry but i doen't. Yes i feel sad and i want to cry with my family but i just cannot. Does anybody know why this is the case?
I feel that my mom thinks im cold and i doen't care about it because im not as sad as they are.
I doen't do so good when someone is very emotional and i must be the one to comfort them. If i take my brother for example he can really emotionally support that person but i cannot.

People deal with death in different ways.

No right or wrong way, just your way.

 

[Hermit of 13 Swords]

So we have lost our grandpa a few months ago and I did not cry. We lost another family member
a few weeks ago and i did not cry.Today we lost one of our pets and i was the only one who did not cry. Its been so many times now that one would expect me to cry but i doen't. Yes i feel sad and i want to cry with my family but i just cannot. Does anybody know why this is the case?
I feel that my mom thinks im cold and i doen't care about it because im not as sad as they are.
I doen't do so good when someone is very emotional and i must be the one to comfort them. If i take my brother for example he can really emotionally support that person but i cannot.

It's similar for me too. Like one year ago, i lost my grandpa too. I didn't cry but everyone else was crying. I feel like this is more about how people act. Like introverted and extroverted.

I did feel sad and wanted to cry. While everyone was crying, i couldn't. Which felt inhuman at the time. "I want to cry. Why can't i cry like them?" was my thoughts for days upon days. After everything was done(funeral, etc.), when i finally got back to my room alone; i did cry. The feelings wasn't overwhelming but like a fluid. Later i discovered that i was bad at showing my emotions to others directly. I wanted to work on this. I am still working on it and i started to gain some results.

What you are experiencing isn't exactly a bad thing. We are all different from each other. Some can feel overwhelmed and cry their brains out. Some can get too affected from the shock and can't even move or talk. It's a good thing that you can still feel sad but can keep yourself together. If you want to show your emotions to outside, you can work on it. Still this doesn't mean what you are experiencing is wrong.

This was a case for me but this may help. Some people have traumas from their childhood and past lives. Some of these can be make it hard for you to show emotions. Resolving this traumas mentally and spiritually can help the situation. Our brain usually doesn't let us see our traumas directly so don't beat yourself too much over it. If you have a trauma it will show itself in the future one way or another. (Cleaning past life karma is a good way to solve these spiritually.) Trust yourself and believe that you can move forward. Issues can be solved only if you are determined to walk forward.

(You might not have a trauma like that in the first place. Take what i said as a slight chance happening. )

 

[Jack]

You don't have to force yourself to cry. If it happened spontaneously, don't feel bad or judge yourself. But don't beat yourself up if you can't cry when someone dies. When my grandfather died probably 10 years ago ,I didn't cry either. I cried after his cremation, when I was alone holding his picture. I couldn't cry before when others were around. Its not a big deal.

 

[One Wire Phenomenon]

So we have lost our grandpa a few months ago and I did not cry. We lost another family member
a few weeks ago and i did not cry.Today we lost one of our pets and i was the only one who did not cry. Its been so many times now that one would expect me to cry but i doen't. Yes i feel sad and i want to cry with my family but i just cannot. Does anybody know why this is the case?
I feel that my mom thinks im cold and i doen't care about it because im not as sad as they are.
I doen't do so good when someone is very emotional and i must be the one to comfort them. If i take my brother for example he can really emotionally support that person but i cannot.

It's similar for me too. Like one year ago, i lost my grandpa too. I didn't cry but everyone else was crying. I feel like this is more about how people act. Like introverted and extroverted.

I did feel sad and wanted to cry. While everyone was crying, i couldn't. Which felt inhuman at the time. "I want to cry. Why can't i cry like them?" was my thoughts for days upon days. After everything was done(funeral, etc.), when i finally got back to my room alone; i did cry. The feelings wasn't overwhelming but like a fluid. Later i discovered that i was bad at showing my emotions to others directly. I wanted to work on this. I am still working on it and i started to gain some results.

What you are experiencing isn't exactly a bad thing. We are all different from each other. Some can feel overwhelmed and cry their brains out. Some can get too affected from the shock and can't even move or talk. It's a good thing that you can still feel sad but can keep yourself together. If you want to show your emotions to outside, you can work on it. Still this doesn't mean what you are experiencing is wrong.

This was a case for me but this may help. Some people have traumas from their childhood and past lives. Some of these can be make it hard for you to show emotions. Resolving this traumas mentally and spiritually can help the situation. Our brain usually doesn't let us see our traumas directly so don't beat yourself too much over it. If you have a trauma it will show itself in the future one way or another. (Cleaning past life karma is a good way to solve these spiritually.) Trust yourself and believe that you can move forward. Issues can be solved only if you are determined to walk forward.

(You might not have a trauma like that in the first place. Take what i said as a slight chance happening. )

Thank you for sharing this!
Yes it helps in a lot of ways. I feel better about it now...

Everyone is different.
I just wish i could be more emotionally there for my parents,but i will try to work on it.
Thanks agian

 

[NinRick]

Why my Grandpa died I was also the only person who did not cry. But I was sad.

 

[Aquarius]

I wouldn't cry for most people and even relatives, I know the truth about the afterlife and I know what attends those who are without, and I know how lucky people that I know are, because I can ask Satan to take care of their souls.
I wouldn't shed a tear if my grandmother died tomorrow, I didn't shed a tear when my uncle died, I wasn't attached to them.
I'm not attached to most of my relatives, heck even my parents, I don't know if I will cry if a parent of mine dies.
You don't have to conform to other people's emotions, never do that, it's you who decides on your own emotions, not others.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

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Could be a throat chakra blockage. Which creates an emotional blockage.