FancyMancy said:
According to the area of the site for Gods and Goddesses, LADY Lilith supports abortion. Despite this, I am still not a fan of abortion. If a soon-to-be parent saw their unborn Baby was defective, malformed, with any form of incorrect Body formation, whatever, and aborted him/her, then the Soul might reincarnate, possibly into a better Body; but what seems to be your case, the unborn Baby reincarnates into the same type of Body, but the parents then abort him/her, then he/she reincarnates again and those parents abort him/her, lather, rinse, repeat... then wouldn't that Soul be lost?
This is also what I was concerned about, and it's the reason why I took such offence to Jack's suggestion and considered it a threat.
At least if I have a physical body, I can try to work on things, and maybe I can eventually even have children if I figure out a way, whether that's with medical assistance, or by curing my condition on a spiritual level and reincarnating into a normal body.
Jack suggests that if there are no intersex bodies anymore, I would just reincarnate into a normal body. But even if that's really the case and I did manage to do so, it's possible that this would still lead to severe confusion about my sex, as I never actually resolved the deeper issues that caused me to be this way in the first place.
Imprinted unto my Soul throughout my entire existence is the notion that I'm abnormal, as well as a desire to change. Rather than reincarnating into a body I'd be more comfortable in, I've kept reincarnating into bodies that will re-manifest that same desire to change, as well as the notion that I'm abnormal. Because I never actually fulfilled that desire, or felt comfortable and satisfied with my physical body, these issues stuck with me throughout each incarnation. Perhaps if I fulfil that desire to whatever extent I can, and physically feel more comfortable in my body, my Soul will stop rejecting bodies that aren't "abnormal" in this specific way, and I'll be able to reincarnate in a non-intersex body I feel more comfortable in.
I don't think this is really something I can overcome as a ghost, since I don't have any sexual issues when I do it astrally anyway. It's the physical realm in which I experienced problems and felt out of place, so I think it needs to be solved here, if that makes any sense.
I am thinking that due to so many centuries of jewish disease - hating sex, abusing Humans, etc. - upon Earth, that any individuals' dysphoria or as in the OP supposedly seeing themself as the opposite sex in meditation... is due to the individual's Sacral Chakra being so dirty. I will take this further and suggest - as a guess - that due to the Sacral Chakra being so dirty, in one way or another, to one extreme or another, individually, that that also has caused hermaphroditism, inter-sex, whatever you want to call it.
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I don't know, but I would suggest, that if I am correct in this regarding the Physical hermaphroditism/inter-sex happenings in the womb, that individuals should clean the feck out of their Second/Sacral Chakra. Along with that, their corresponding paired Throat Chakra. Of course, all Soul and Chakra work needs to be done properly anyway, but for individuals like these, I would say these two Chakras especially.
If, for example Meteor or anyone else, knows if this is the case, due to working on themselves, etc., then please let me know if I am correct or not. I'd appreciate that. Again - if I am incorrect, then working on these two Chakras would still benefit the individual regardless.
Since you asked, I'll relate my own experiences with working on my Sacral Chakra.
My Sacral Chakra is something I focused on especially much when I was new to meditation, as I was having a lot of sexual problems back then. I used to be somewhat attracted to women as well as men, but I lost all interest in women as I cleaned my Sacral Chakra. My libido also increased drastically, and all erogenous zones on my body became more sensitive. I also completely lost interest in any strange fetishes I had; in general, fetishes can be a way to compensate for underlying sexual problems and mental health problems, so it makes sense that meditating and working on one's Sacral Chakra can cause these to disappear if they were unnatural.
I haven't been particularly interested in using my physical genitalia for anything sexual since I figured out how to have sex with my partner astrally, and even when it comes to doing things physically, I feel more comfortable focusing on other erogenous zones. However, I experimented with it back in October last year because I was curious. Aside from it feeling really weird and hollow, achieving an orgasm that way caused acute pain in my Sacral Chakra, followed by what felt like unclean energy which lingered around afterwards and numbed all sexual pleasure I felt. I repeated this the following two days to see if anything would change, and my Sacral Chakra felt increasingly numb and painful. I concluded it was harmful and stopped, after which I recovered in a few days.
Based on that, I'd say cleaning my Sacral Chakra made it glaringly obvious to me how incompatible I am with my physical body in this regard. I used to be numb all the time anyway before I started meditating, so I used not to notice the damage it caused. Uncleanliness represents impurities: things that aren't in line with one's nature. Considering the way to cure my intersex condition that would cause the least issues is to reincarnate with a fully female body, it does make sense something like that would go against my true nature.
In general, cleaning the Sacral Chakra will bring someone more closely in touch with their natural sexual instincts, while cleaning the Throat Chakra will help to bring someone in touch with their emotions and express them in a healthy way. I'm a bit unusual in the sense that my sexual instincts make no sense for the type of body I have, which likely has to do with an error in sexual differentiation due to my physical intersex condition, which has stuck with me throughout my lifetimes due to the unresolved karma caused by this. But for people for whom this isn't the case, working on those two Chakras would likely fix any confusion they have about their gender.
I've known some individuals who felt like they weren't allowed to express their honest emotions, or that they wouldn't be loved unless they were the opposite sex; such insecurities would likely be solved by working on their Throat Chakra. There are also some men who fetishize being stripped of their masculinity, because they feel ashamed of it deep down. Working on their Sacral Chakra would help to make them more aware of their male sexual instincts and make it harder for them to repress these, while working on their Solar Chakra can help them fix their lack of self-worth and remove misplaced feelings of shame in what they are.
In short: yes, this will absolutely help, and I believe that avoiding doing things that make my Sacral Chakra feel unclean might even help to remove the intersex condition from my Soul on the long term. I think it's fairly clean these days though.
On a side note, I performed some spiritual alchemy on my Sacral Chakra to enhance pleasure from all sources and increase the amount of orgasms I can have before I start to feel strained by it. Empowering one's Sacral Chakra can greatly enhance one's enjoyment from sex, and I highly recommend it to anyone regardless of whether they have any issues with their body.
Obviously, the mental and psychological problems in some people, whether transsexual or merely transvestite, I think is due to dirty Sacral Chakra, heaps of curses upon Humans from the jew, etc. For non-sex-"changes", i.e. for transvestitism, I might reserve judgement, that a healthy person who fancies dressing themself up as the opposite sex, for a fun skit, for acting in a play, or for their own sexual pleasure (i.e. in homosexual couples, sometimes it appears that one tends to be masculine and the other feminine), this might not be unhealthy - (you know - what you do in the bedroom is your own private business...) but it is impossible for me to know if everyone is healthy or not, so I'd just leave them to it.
Clothes are just fabric anyway. As long as it looks nice, I don't really see a problem with it.
What's weird in my opinion is if people wear clothes that don't suit them at all. But as you said yourself, in homosexual couples one of the two sometimes appears more masculine/feminine. Some guys look cute in a skirt, and some women look rather dashing when they wear clothes that accentuate their manliness; it's just a way to express an unusual side of themselves and attract partners of the same sex. As long as they don't take it so far that others can't tell what sex they are, I don't see how it would be unhealthy.
I think it's different when people insist on wearing things that look terrible on them, since then it's no longer about accentuating their existing charms, but about trying to be something they're not. This could be a sign that they're trying to compensate for feeling out of touch with some part of who they are. This is probably something that could be worked on, and expressed in a different way that isn't so horribly unfashionable. But as long as they keep it in the bedroom, it's up to them to figure out whether it's healthy or not.