Relationships #79072 loneliness

[Ask Satya Operator]

i don't know how to describe what I'm experiencing but I feel so, so lonely and twisted. I can't make friends because I'm not capable of forming bonds with them since I'm scared they'll hurt my feelings. I'm desperate. i try to have friends but always end up putting distance with them without wanting. I'm scared I'll lose them if I become close. I also experienced bullying in high school, but this was happening in my childhood too so it's not really relevant. I'm guessing it's about my natal chard. I tried everything for years... I changed my looks and personality over and over but I always end up alone. I meet people and I can't get close with them. what can I do about this, please give me a solution I feel so bad. I'll try anything and do anything. I just want a friend, a real friend. I want to be able to form a friendship.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

Do not change your personality or your look. Be real and authentic and be yourself. Many people now are just not very compatible. But you will find some people who are compatible with you to be your friends. But not by you changing your personality or basically pretending to be a different person, because that will only make it more difficult to find compatible people. Doing that would find people who match with a fake persona, not who actually match you.