Sexuality #77912 BDSM? Help!

[AskSatanOperator]

Hello family, how are you?
I have some doubts since I've been reading the forum and found certain things like that transsexuality is a mental illness. The problem is that (I'm a man) I'm attracted to extremely feminine trans women (I've never been with one, I've only watched porn), and I feel that it's a total perversion, since this desire only manifests itself when I'm sexually dissatisfied. I have also been asking chatGPT to analyze my birth chart, I know it may not be the best thing to do, but I went to the AI, and I began to ask him what it could be due to by analyzing my birth chart and if it was a perversion in my mind, I also asked him why I like BDSM, and he answered me with what is in my birth chart, but I would like to ask you why I like BDSM, that is, sadism, totally dominating a person, to the point that they humiliate themselves in front of me, chatGPT told me that it may be because my dark Moon is in cancer and in the 8th house, which according to what he told me is credible since at the same time I have been in a relationship with a bipolar girl being fully aware, with a subpurpose of her being dependent on me, but I don't think it is healthy observing it well, and I wanted to receive advice on what I can do? from now on, thank you all!
Hail Zeus!

 

[AFODO]

transsexuality is a mental illness.

It is

I've only watched porn

That's the problem

and I feel that it's a total perversion

Because it is

I have also been asking chatGPT to analyze my birth chart

Don't do this, do this for yourself.

I like BDSM

To some extent it is okay and some kinks, these are just sexual preferences. But not to some inhuman disgusting extent.

 

[Recycler1337]

This opinion is because changing your gender is not real! Hormones are bad for your health and make you a SEXLESS creature, surgeries make you a homunculus and not a woman! As for BDSM, it's your personal business, as long as both partners enjoy it and there is no long-term harm to your health. You can find a feminine guy who just likes to dress up, or a woman with a short haircut.

 

[Vivek]

Firstly, you need to stop watching porn, especially if it's excessive. Your brain will eventually become desensitised and demand more and more extreme forms of content in order to achieve arousal, which can lead to sexual perversion(s) and/or dysfunctional attitudes towards love/sex/intimacy. You can read more here: What’s the role of orgasm in wiring artificial sexual tastes?

Those with strong Pluto/Scorpio placements in certain houses, especially relating to Mercury/3rd or the 8th in general, may have a greater predisposition to this type of behaviour in negative manifestations, and so, must take extra care to ensure this is properly channelled into the correct outlet, namely meditation.

 

[Stormblood]

BDSM past a point is very unhealthy, as it has detrimental effects on the psyche to abuse people and be abused. Degradation is a form a psychological abuse. Being aroused by giving it or receiving is not a healthy state of mind, but a misunderstanding of how certain energies are handled. Mishandling these energies results in harmful urges like this.

I say past a point because there's obvious natural dynamics at play in dominance and submission, for example. The key is learning to recognise when these dynamics cross the boundary between health and harm. You should not feel the desire to harm a loved one in any way, be it degradation or inflicting pain of any kind.

It is also unhealthy to create harmful associations between pain and pleasure. That's just a form of psychological conditioning done in a harmful way. Brainwashing that comes from porn and fiction. Pain is supposed to feel bad because it alerts you to damage. It's unnatural to redirect it to feel good.

Humiliation and degradation are lower forms of expression of certain energies. Spiritual advancement to refine lower expressions into their refined form, not to validate lower expressions and reinforce them. Humiliation and degradation are only acceptable toward enemies who are past the point of deserving empathy. Enemies, not loved ones. Part of the refinement process is to understand when it's acceptable to use these forms of expression, and when higher forms of expression are necessary.

Before someone mentions "just for sex", let me explain that sex (eros) is considered a form of love. So people you have sex with are still loved ones in a way, even if it's a one-night stand. That's because deep soul connections are formed through sex, which should remind people here why we make remarks about sexual hygiene practices, including not being with a different person every night of the year which is excessive and thus extremely unhealthy behaviour in the opposite way to sexual abstinence.