BDSM and Me

[Talon]

This is embarrassing - sort of.

BDSM fits me. It's adventurous - so am i . I have met outstanding people. It's not just kink, it's connections. i have learned about myself too.

I am quite submissive. Largely life experiences made my submissive character but it seems, it may have been there and awakened - perhaps.

Enough back story
MORE TO THE POINT

I had a dominant. She also dedicated herself to Satan. We have that in common. (among other things, ) She doesn't think it is good for a follower of this religion to be overly submissive.

I see her point. She wants the best for me. How do i break from submission. it's been so long.

I hope this IS seen as an appropriate question. I think it is because I'm growing. I think that makes Father Satan proud. Growth /shadow work sure can be difficult. it's worth it though !

 

[Ælberiigor]

It seems to me that if you just follow the meditation program up to awake the Base Chakra, you'll just loose the ability to be submissive.
Be submissive is surely a manifestation of a lack of grounding.
Maybe by nature you are kind and the lack of grounding make you submissive, while authoritarian/proud people can become abusive or sadistic when not grounded.

 

[Henu the Great]

This is embarrassing - sort of.

BDSM fits me. It's adventurous - so am i . I have met outstanding people. It's not just kink, it's connections. i have learned about myself too.

I am quite submissive. Largely life experiences made my submissive character but it seems, it may have been there and awakened - perhaps.

Enough back story
MORE TO THE POINT

I had a dominant. She also dedicated herself to Satan. We have that in common. (among other things, ) She doesn't think it is good for a follower of this religion to be overly submissive.

I see her point. She wants the best for me. How do i break from submission. it's been so long.

I hope this IS seen as an appropriate question. I think it is because I'm growing. I think that makes Father Satan proud. Growth /shadow work sure can be difficult. it's worth it though !

You can and should empower your third chakra. When you do this, you should also have an outlet in the real world for things that this area represents/rules over. Change is only half done in meditation.

It seems to me that if you just follow the meditation program up to awake the Base Chakra, you'll just loose the ability to be submissive.
Be submissive is surely a manifestation of a lack of grounding.
Maybe by nature you are kind and the lack of grounding make you submissive, while authoritarian/proud people can become abusive or sadistic when not grounded.

No. And I wonder your implication that BDSM is not a natural form of expression to some people being True or not...

 

[Ælberiigor]

No. And I wonder your implication that BDSM is not a natural form of expression to some people being True or not...

I admit I'm not sure that any custom be natural, but a way to evacuate energy. In fact, I think BDSM is better than drug because it frees while drug jails.

I mentionned the Base Chakra because I felt during its activation a deep gravity and a powerful grounding... making me no more OK to tolerate anything.
But I activated it too soon and had to stop exercises...

 

[Henu the Great]

I mentionned the Base Chakra because I felt during its activation a deep gravity and a powerful grounding... making me no more OK to tolerate anything.
But I activated it too soon and had to stop exercises...

I know the feeling, and I am very accustomed to it. Keep on working on it, that's all I can say.