#238 Size difference

[AskSatanOperator]

I don't know if it's natural or not, but I feel a strong attraction for tall men, VERY tall, over 2 meters or even 3; but I wouldn't like it to be because of a disease, I would like it to be natural, that his real and genuine size is that and that it doesn't bring him health problems. The idea of being with a man with a toned body of that height with a woman of average height like me is striking to me.

I think it is because I associate him with more security and safety (especially if he is interested in security jobs), taking into account that I am attracted to men with dominant fire, as I have seen in my natal chart.

As I said at the beginning, I am unaware of that fact, as I feel I am over fantasizing, with ideas that are beyond what can be easily achieved.

What should I know?

What advice could you give me?

I would appreciate it.

(NT: I couldn't tell if this is the right category, as I am not in a relationship with anyone, so I considered putting it here).

 

[Kaemythra]

There's no problem with you liking tall men, it's your preference and that's that, nobody has anything to do with what you like. Now, as for the 2 meter tall part, they are a small part of the population and depending on the country you live in it's even difficult.
The taller they get, the more problems they can have, and this is easy to see and find on any search site. But I'm not saying that you have to stop liking it, I've just never seen someone as tall as you say and whose body is "fine".

 

[aksiptrina]

I don't know if it's natural or not, but I feel a strong attraction for tall men, VERY tall, over 2 meters or even 3; but I wouldn't like it to be because of a disease, I would like it to be natural, that his real and genuine size is that and that it doesn't bring him health problems. The idea of being with a man with a toned body of that height with a woman of average height like me is striking to me.

I think it is because I associate him with more security and safety (especially if he is interested in security jobs), taking into account that I am attracted to men with dominant fire, as I have seen in my natal chart.

As I said at the beginning, I am unaware of that fact, as I feel I am over fantasizing, with ideas that are beyond what can be easily achieved.

What should I know?

What advice could you give me?

I would appreciate it.

(NT: I couldn't tell if this is the right category, as I am not in a relationship with anyone, so I considered putting it here).

Even 3 meters? I know NO ONE that is 9 feet tall. The tallest person I have met was around 7 ft 6. Oh, a manager I worked with was 6 ft 8 or so, but he was actually very debilitated with joint and back problems. He was stooped over so he looked about 6 feet tall. Walked around with two crutches to hold his weight.

I tutored a doctors son who was 6 ft 6 I believe. He was struggling to maintain his grades to be on the basketball team. He was surprisingly weak, I think on account of his height.

Robert Wadlow was basically 9 feet tall, never met him. Reported to be dead at 22 years of age. I feel bad because its reported he wanted to work in advertising, not exhibiting in a circus.
I am not sure there could be someone 9 feet tall who doesn't have a problem with hormones or the glands. I suppose its possible, but seems unlikely. Back, joint and heart problems would probably be an issue, even for someone without glandular problems.

 

[sinbad]

Even 3 meters? I know NO ONE that is 9 feet tall. The tallest person I have met was around 7 ft 6.

A lot of women have very poor spatial awareness, which includes height, length, and size of 3D object's - specifically the distance between themselves and object's in relation to their physical environment and field of view.

Not all women of course, but I've noticed it's a pretty common occurence, however a lot of it is also just group-think conformity stemming from social media.

As for OP, it's not an abnormal desire but it is exagerrated. However in your case, based on what you've said it may stem from pre-existing issue's related to emotional security and/or a father figure, which should be healed first and foremost.

Healing the Emotional Body (for men too, don’t disregard this)

You have your physical body, soul, astral body, mental body, and more. The Emotional Body is the part of the soul that can be damaged when you experience emotional trauma, grief, bereavement, abandonment, and so on. Many people have emotional outbursts, immature reactions, trigger episodes...

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It's pretty to normal to want to feel small/safe/secure with a partner, but outright dependency should be avoided.

 

[Rroco88]

Attraction to taller men is not bad in itself. It comes from the mental desire for a partner to look and feel more powerful physically, than us.

However, when we want a huge difference in height, even unrealistic, and refuse to see men averagely tall, this has its root in an unhealthy mentality, which can come from past traumas, such as hyperdependency on a father figure in the early stages of life, or even the past life, and other possible problems.

This can be solved with freeing the soul workings, with Munka, as well as workings with runes for mental healing.