Struggling to deal with my xain family.

[Brandonn]

To give context. I am the oldest in my family, and since around 12 or so I've had to grow up and be the man of the house. My 2 younger brothers the second and third oldest come from a different father.

So for the longest time I have been sacrificing majority of my time and goals in order to make sure everything at home is good, I've always had this issue where my other siblings get special treatment. Where certain things don't apply to them.

But lately every since the enemy has chosen to convince my youngest brother that " Jesus" is speaking directly through him and he is the chosen one all that. It has become intolerable. Now he doesn't need to do anything of behave or listening because " his doing the Lord's work" and he recently decided to head to his Father and complain that I'm telling him off about his bad behaviour and some how it comes back as " Me abusing him, giving him unfair treatment and his special now so he can't be treated like other kids" I have absolutely had it. Now I'm perspective enough to understand that at this point there's nothing I can do and I don't hate them but for my own peace and sanity I just need to leave them.

Which has been rather a hard decision for me to actually come to terms with as I've always put them above everything else, and now I have to put myself.

I am certain this came at the perfect time also as I was planning on marriage within the second half of year and I don't want them there, although I'll have my family there attending.

And this isn't a issue that steams from anything else I haven't had a any bad vibes towards or over the edge issues. It's just only now recently that this has been an issue. So I'm choosing peace.

Also as the " chosen " he somehow acts like his untouchable and all mighty. Walking around judging and condemning those who he doesn't like. Trying to convert people children and created a whole " spiritual group" made of kids. And of course no one seeing and issues with that, and I've even had to beg my mother to talk to him and make sure they both acted normally at a family event we went too cause I didn't want to have them cause more issues.

I would love to hear any additional advice anyone has.

Hail Zeus
Hail Satan

 

[Seeker in the Dark]

Bind his rabbi-worshipping ass

 

[WoadWarrior]

Keep in mind some kids just do stupid shit sometimes, its very likely a phase that being said if its an issue use ISA to bind him from this harmful behaviour, if its your wedding its your rules, dont worry about it for now and honestly I would just starve him for attention as it sounds like hes doing attention seeking behaviour dont engage, dont let it rile you up and if this escalates further please give an update and we can help.

Honestly this might be the sign you need that you need to leave your family home, theres nothing wrong with that and its entirely natural.

That being said its hard to tell how concerning his behaviour is, this could be anything from him trolling to attention seeking to full blown psychosis, so keep in mind my advice is based off the idea that its just a kid being annoying but it may be more severe than that.

 

[OuroborphicMystery]

I was going to suggest binding, but it seems others beat me to it.

You can also remind him, or if needed, everyone, of your position. If you have been the man of the house for so long, your brother lives on your dime. Sure, he has his father too from what I understand but either way, doesn't he live under your roof? Remind him of that. You don't have to get into a "religious" clash - I do love to do that when it is safe for me to do so because I find every opportunity to deconvert people useful; but there is a time and place for that. You can just be a secular-minded guy in this argument and make your argument purely on what a goofy, creepy weirdo he is being; especially with kids and all.

In short, do not be afraid to be a little manipulative and administer some tough love. You are the authority in this case; in literally every sense of the word. Not him. You don't need to "beg" anyone for anything, including your mother (though of course, be respectful to your ancestors). If this little guy is giving you a hard time, just make him stop. I usually find that Zevists, being more evolved beings on average, tend to be too nice when they should be harder sometimes. Don't forget your self-worth.

All the power to you, Brother. May your half-brother get his head out of the rabbi's ass soon. You still share blood, I wish him well.

 

[WoadWarrior]

I should also note when I say bind him I mean in a good and beneficial way, not only is he your family but he is also a child a binding can be very negative and you do not want to do that, I shouldnt have said binding and ISA is probably too strong for this task try Ehwaz rune instead, its far more harmonious and would better in this situation as instead of simply preventing the bad behaviour it will help foster good behaviour.

Keep the affirmations positive, see it more as blessing as your deterring him from harmful behaviours.