In Satanism, things that have lost their sacred meanings and have become mundane affairs that can be equated with having a handshake, like sex [in some cases], are much more important to the Satanist than those who are without.
Those who are without are at square one with things like sex. They just do it because it feels good, as opposed to doing it for a deeper spiritual purpose, such as chakra and energy work that goes towards advancing one's powers of their soul.
The point is that sex is definitely not meaningless, nor is it something that is purely carnal, in Satanism. Sex is SACRED in Satanism, as opposed to the decadence and degeneracy of those who are without who couldn't give a rat's ass about having a soul, nor what it means to have a soul.
There are many people who come to true Satanism who have been so brainwashed by Christianity, that they cannot fully leave Christianity, in that they feel the need to follow a form of reverse Christianity, instead of embarking on the Pagan Satanic path of knowledge, wisdom, and power. This is truly a disgrace.
In Satanism, the purpose of being a Satanist is to raise the kundalini serpent and perfect our mind, body, and soul. Sex, if the sexual energies are channeled correctly by someone who is adept at energy work, can enhance SPIRITUALITY, rather than base materialism. This isn't to put restrictions on sex that is for the purpose of releasing tension, but is to emphasize the importance of spirituality and how the spiritual and the physical are balanced within the life of the Satanist.
Also, the most important thing to remember besides sexual safety [condoms, etc], is spiritual safety. Just because a session of sex with someone feels good, doesn't mean that you didn't contract SPIRITUAL debris from said person. In other words, responsibility comes with every choice we make in life, and it is one's responsibility to clean one's aura and chakras before and after a sexual encounter. Spiritual hygiene affects the physical, and physical hygiene affects the spiritual. This is something that must be kept in mind.
Satan doesn't favor the sex act for base material pleasure, but for spiritual pleasure combined with physical pleasure, as Satan, too, is both a spiritual AND physical being. Our sex lives are up to us, but I can tell you that the whole "Sex for Satan" thing is from more of a reverse Christian mentality than a Pagan Satanic mentality. Work on that. There are many other gay/bisexual men who are in the same boat, so to speak. This is not an insult, but just a reminder that if you are really into Satanism, it needs to be your priority to put Satanism and the Satanic life first and foremost.
Be safe, be careful, and know what you are doing.
P.S. I'm glad that Satan reminded me about this in closing... Sexual energy can be "donated" to the Powers of Hell when one has an excess of it. Just make sure you are doing it for the correct reasons. Satan knows one's intentions, and it is up to him whether he accepts or rejects, due to intentions.
666/88!!
High Priest Jake Carlson
http://www.joyofsatan.com