What do you mean by "worshipping Satan through porn"?
We don't want to mislead you. You need to make absolutely certain that your Soul is male. There is so much shit in media and peer-pressure and "fitting in" etc., that I am always very sceptical that anyone wants to transition. It's your life, though.
Power meditation helps us to know ourselves truly and deeply. Through power meditation, our true everything comes out - but also bad things are uprooted which can be uncomfortable. Don't be offended by me saying this but you may find that in actual fact you might not want or need to transition, once you learn about yourself properly. I'm sure you know it's such a big decision to make.
Firstly, please go through this -
http://gbltthulesociety666.angelfire.com/about
http://gbltthulesociety666.angelfire.com
then this -
https://ancient-forums.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=1379
There is much to go through, so do go at a good speed which you can handle.
When you're ready properly, then if by "more pleasure" you mean a Daemon or Daemoness lover, then that can happen, or you could get yourself a Physical lover. You could have more than one lover. You could have male and female lovers... We must learn who ourselves are.
As for a mentor - there are no mediators in Spiritual Satanism. We do the work ourselves, but not alone. We can gain so much pride and fulfilment.