Question #5743: My friend does this to me

[Ask Satya Operator]

This may be a very kiddish thing .But my friend always eats my food also despite him eating his own meals also a very very lot .No matter how much I buy him excessive food,he eats that and eats mine also .He does not even think that I m also hungry and that I m also starving .I wonder why my friend is like this .How can anyone not have empathy towards others ??Can't such people think that others also have a stomach like them .This is hurting me a lot and I literally feel myself very weak

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

This sounds like a bad person. It shows he does not care about other people.

 

[High Priestess Lydia]

Don't buy food for him (he's not your child) and don't let him eat your food. Some people need to be taught, and letting him eat your food is not the way. How does this even happen? You just let him eat your food? Don't allow that.

 

[Kaemythra]

Even if he is your friend, boundaries are essential in all friendships. people think that just because they're friends they can do whatever they want, but that's not exactly how it works. A good friendship is when you trust each other and you can be yourself and know that that person will be there for you. If he was hungry and didn't have any money to buy food at the moment, it's not a bad thing to help him with that...Now, if he eats yours and his...that's not right.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

The only people I've ever seen who do whatever they want, take whatever they want from anybody without one thought of how the other person is affected, have always been jews. It might just be a very low quality person, or it might be a jew.

 

[Ĥl·lĥæ]

This may be

Just tell him not to eat your food
And stop buying him food

 

[Engineered Trasformation]

Some people have difficulties to put boundaries to other people, and this seems the case.
It may be both you opening some door, and the other person acting as a psychic vampire to nullify your will. This happens because of chakra links, that may weaken your will and drain your energies, this is probably why you feel tired after you meet this person.
I'd say you need to distance from this negative person. He is not your friend, he is using you to feel better and put you down. This happens often, many people are too negative to deal with.

 

[Rocca]

Don't buy food for him (he's not your child) and don't let him eat your food. Some people need to be taught, and letting him eat your food is not the way. How does this even happen? You just let him eat your food? Don't allow that.

that's a polite way for the common proverb:
"fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me"