Overreacting to my posts

[Proshat]

Greetings brothers and sisters

Today was a really bad day for me. I made this post so that everyone who has a problem with me can come forward and talk about it.

Every time I express my feelings about something, I get ovens , and no matter what I say, everyone disagrees.

Why do you like to disagree with me on literally everything I say even when I prove to you that I'm telling the truth?

 

[OttoHart]

Might be lack of good communication on your part, or people just misunderstanding you (some people are naturally unlucky at this for chart related reasons).

No Zevist should never feel like they are generally disliked or ostracized, a couple disputes here and there shouldn't shake your confidence in your bond with this community.
In your case, I personally value your presence here.

Misunderstandings will resolve themselves, and even real, unsolvable conflicts can and will happen.
If we are to be an active and growing community, there will be people who will dislike one another, this is a natural consequence of socializing.
Do not let it demoralize you.

 

[616Taysha]

@Proshat bad idea, as Mercury is retrograde now = misunderstandings abound.

I think you have a victim mindset, that is especially triggered by how you're conditioned to see men. I don't think this can be helped by the forums as it looks very far gone. The only suggestion I can give is to ask help from the Gods, if you want to advance spiritually you will have to heal.

Aquarius has already told you about your victim mentality, so this post is needless; what this post does is only invite more discord and needles drama.

Advice? Wait until ME Rx is over, and go over what you've written. Martyrdom and siege mentality are in no way conducive to intellectual debates.

 

[Proshat]

@Proshat bad idea, as Mercury is retrograde now = misunderstandings abound.


Aquarius has already told you about your victim mentality, so this post is needless; what this post does is only invite more discord and needles drama.

Advice? Wait until ME Rx is over, and go over what you've written. Martyrdom and siege mentality are in no way conducive to intellectual debates.

Yesterday, everyone told me to make a post about it.

This isn’t a victim mentality because I wasn’t even complaining about how men feel about women. I don’t think they will change their feelings so I don't care .

The only thing I complained about was that people ignore what others say, but when I talk to someone, they find a reason to get mad.

 

[Acolyte Of Pan 666]

It seems this is mainly on your posts regarding men and women.

Most men are juvenile.

Most women are juvenile.

It’s not complicated. Hate the behaviours, not the people. Just avoid/ignore the people who engage in such behaviours. Don’t blame an entire sex though.

Focus on the ideals. Do rituals for Zeus as He is the ultimate archetype for Divine Masculinity. The way men should be isn’t how most men behave today, same thing for women.

As for the brothers here, like the sisters, pretty much all of us are flawed in some way and are trying to improve ourselves. Many will have resentment towards women, usually due to failures in dating.

Resentment of males/females towards the other sex is almost always caused by relationship issues. This should be counteracted through working on the soul to remove low self-esteem from oneself, doing rituals to heal one’s perception of the other sex, and then doing rituals to remove bad relationship karma and attract a good partner to one’s life. It takes work.

But as Zevists, we are a unit and no Zevist should ever cause conflict with another over such issues.

We need to avoid at all costs all forms of infighting and sectarian division. This is easy while we’re a small group, but it will get harder as our membership grows.

We are watched over by the Gods though, but we should also design rituals to maintain and strengthen that unity indefinitely.

 

[Epiphany]

Greetings brothers and sisters

Today was a really bad day for me. I made this post so that everyone who has a problem with me can come forward and talk about it.

Every time I express my feelings about something, I get ovens , and no matter what I say, everyone disagrees.

Why do you like to disagree with me on literally everything I say even when I prove to you that I'm telling the truth?

I don't think anybody has a problem with you personally, but it is important to be more aware of how you communicate because the way you word things can have drastic effects on how you're recieved by others, and that reception may not always feel good. And no matter what you say, there will always be someone who disagrees, but it doesn't mean they hate you or that you're a bad person. Even HPHC and HPS Lydia have haters.

Since learning more of your background in another thread, I can empathize with you. It sounds like your background introduced unique challenges, being a sensitive person and growing up in a culture of silence and not talking about anything must have been difficult, especially if you feel things deeply.

Being starved relationally may have delayed you from learning how to self regulate and modulate your speech & emotions. This is something I also gather from noticing how you seem to have a tendency of describing things in a black or white, all or nothing thinking style.

I also recall that you are young and you grew up in a culture that's difficult for women and this will obviously have an impact on how you view yourself and the world around you, inheriting karma/programming not just from your family but your society.

Have you studied your natal chart? This could give you the map you need to navigate your karma in this life. Psychology is also helpful to study, in order to gain an awareness and understanding of one's own mind and why it behaves the way it does.

 

[Proshat]

I don't think anybody has a problem with you personally, but it is important to be more aware of how you communicate because the way you word things can have drastic effects on how you're recieved by others, and that reception may not always feel good. And no matter what you say, there will always be someone who disagrees, but it doesn't mean they hate you or that you're a bad person. Even HPHC and HPS Lydia have haters.

Since learning more of your background in another thread, I can empathize with you. It sounds like your background introduced unique challenges, being a sensitive person and growing up in a culture of silence and not talking about anything must have been difficult, especially if you feel things deeply.

Being starved relationally may have delayed you from learning how to self regulate and modulate your speech & emotions. This is something I also gather from noticing how you seem to have a tendency of describing things in a black or white, all or nothing thinking style.

I also recall that you are young and you grew up in a culture that's difficult for women and this will obviously have an impact on how you view yourself and the world around you, inheriting karma/programming not just from your family but your society.

Have you studied your natal chart? This could give you the map you need to navigate your karma in this life. Psychology is also helpful to study, in order to gain an awareness and understanding of one's own mind and why it behaves the way it does.

I studied my natal chart. My sun ruined it for me. Now I know why I’ve always unconsciously hated the sun.