Mostafa Kafai
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- Jan 2, 2014
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hello. I have a question.
My lover, she is xian but we don't ever fight about our religion, we are very understanding of one another. The fact she's xian doesn't present a problem yes?
My second question. The only thing we bash heads about is our child...we both agree we shouldn't force a religion on our child. She promised she'd never take the child to her church unless the child said they wanted too. When they are older, they can choose their own religion. The problem is Baptizing. My lover wants to Baptize our child out of tradition and is important to her but...the idea unsettles me greatly. So i've denied it quite a few times. We keep arguing about it. So i wanted to ask
Will baptizing my child give the xians more control over my child? Should i keep denying this for my child?
Thank you for any help
My lover, she is xian but we don't ever fight about our religion, we are very understanding of one another. The fact she's xian doesn't present a problem yes?
My second question. The only thing we bash heads about is our child...we both agree we shouldn't force a religion on our child. She promised she'd never take the child to her church unless the child said they wanted too. When they are older, they can choose their own religion. The problem is Baptizing. My lover wants to Baptize our child out of tradition and is important to her but...the idea unsettles me greatly. So i've denied it quite a few times. We keep arguing about it. So i wanted to ask
Will baptizing my child give the xians more control over my child? Should i keep denying this for my child?
Thank you for any help