Looking for a compatible female friend.

[Draconi666🎖️▽T]

You are misinterpreting things and taking them far too personally. He gave general advice, to focus on making money and building a solid material life in order to be able to get women more easily. He is not wrong on that. Others who got offended are also in a similar place, in their feelings, and misinterpeting what he said into something completely different.

You're acting as if he called you a homeless bum or something. He also gave sound advice about not putting up strange barriers between yourself and others that will prevent connection. It is important to consider.

I am also a bit surprised to see an established member posting ads for women in the forum as if this is craigslist's personals section or something, especially since the importance of privacy and not connecting your real identity is stressed constantly. But good on you for trying.

I hope you find the answers you seek and consider revisiting magic to help you find a partner.

Many things are alright. But I posted here my post not because of having any of these problems. But because I am extremely busy, and to see if I would leave a message if I would get an reply from a member who is from my location. It was posted like an addition. And not for love. I specified everything quite good. TG Blitzkreig replied for me exactly about this topic and it was solved the rest was just general replies for everyone or so. Now I see it. From all replies what I got what was actually useful for me was Blitzkreig reply about not using forum for this essential because this is different kind of community and to make a magical working which I was always postponed and was dealing with random people who was not based in my attraction but on whatever was on the way because of my lack of time and living on extremely tight schedule, because of hard discipline, making money and etc. Women are coming to me everything is good. But I just dropped a post here to see IF BY any chance I have A Zevist near by. Please understand me.

 

[Draconi666🎖️▽T]

My apologies as I took it maybe too personally.

I made a topic to see if there is members around my location. Dear TG Blitzkreig specified to me that it is better to not do it this way.

But took all the replies as directed to me as it was my made topic and I was not aware that here replies was also to others who may be interested in reading this topic.

Yes I was too harsh and too defensive and I should rather welcome new members without attitude of that sort.

I understood.

 

[616Taysha]

Then again, some new members should see that they also cannot come here and behave as if they have answers to everything, and if senior members don't listen to them, DEY BE STOOPID or whatnot.

This can be a lonely road, so it stands to reason one may want love and affection, so your desire is understandable. =]

 

[Masterj810610]

Then again, some new members should see that they also cannot come here and behave as if they have answers to everything, and if senior members don't listen to them, DEY BE STOOPID or whatnot.

This can be a lonely road, so it stands to reason one may want love and affection, so your desire is understandable. =]

How do they have to behave? Do you think when they see someone replying like you are, they will learn to behave accordingly? Have you read HPHC's sermon about this? Haven't you learn anything?

 

[616Taysha]

Do you think when they see someone replying like you are, they will learn to behave accordingly?

Politeness and common sense dominates the forum - haven't you noticed that?

As such, seeing this, one would think new people will emulate this. And to a large extent the majority of new people do.

My reply was addressing how one should NOT behave. Turning the other cheek when you're being spat on is not the way. Re-read the whole thread, and you'll understand.

 

[Donovandal]

Mercury retrograde moments here and not only here.

 

[Henu the Great]

Mercury retrograde moments here and not only here.

The disagreements and arguing started before Mercury went retrograde.

 

[Draconi666🎖️▽T]

The disagreements and arguing started before Mercury went retrograde.

Anyway all is good. I remembered later about being more nice to new people. It was more from my side assumptions of like "who the hell is his guy?" You know? know nothing, neither I saw this person proven in long term, only that it came from outside and just doing dedication in these days. So I was kind of holding a block from the very beginning and took it maybe wrong way. But first impressions of this person in the safe space chat I liked, and that is to be expected from new members more or less for it to be this way. So for me it is all good.

 

[Donovandal]

The disagreements and arguing started before Mercury went retrograde.

True, but i was refrencing the moments, when Mercury in Retro was in the play. not trying to imply that all of this started because of Mercury in retro.

 

[Masterj810610]

Politeness and common sense dominates the forum - haven't you noticed that?

As such, seeing this, one would think new people will emulate this. And to a large extent the majority of new people do.

My reply was addressing how one should NOT behave. Turning the other cheek when you're being spat on is not the way. Re-read the whole thread, and you'll understand.

I understood that Ultralord was giving generals advice to borther Draconi. Why would TG Alexandros come in this conversation and tell you all that you misinterpret him? Why are you all getting this like an attack on women and Draconi?

Is he too direct for you all?

You are seeing this as an attack while it isn't. You are not defending anyone, you are only misinterpreting his replies. He kept his cool while being target by many of you, that are Zevist and are suppose to have what it takes to behave in good manners.

Keep off this kind of post for a while and take the time to meditate on how you acted. Let this all being a lesson to all, including myself.