I have an important question about sexual life, I understand that it is private but there is a lot of confusion among people

[Daniel6]

Non ho mai avuto una ragazza e non ho mai baciato una ragazza, non perché sono brutto, ma perché per anni ho pensato erroneamente che se doveva venire, sarebbe venuto da sola. Poi ho capito che se vuoi una compagna devi cercarla. Ma onestamente mi sento bene anche senza, ho imparato a controllare i miei impulsi riproduttivi animaleschi. Ho iniziato a masturbarmi a 13 anni, quando a scuola promuovevano la masturbazione. Ho smesso qualche mese fa perché è uno spreco di sperma, quando mi masturbavo mi sentivo debole per qualche giorno, è uno spreco di vitalità, quindi ora pratico la ritenzione dello sperma come fanno i buddisti, e da quando ho smesso mi sento meglio, non so perché qui ci sia qualcuno che promuove lo spreco di sperma...
thank you for your patience

 

[Anemos Aiteros]

Sexual energy is very important if programmed to attract or materialize something.

Also it is very important for Kundalini.

 

[Honey]

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Can you put link of practice in comment please on how to program sexual energy for that?

 

[Honey]

I've never had a girlfriend and I've never kissed a girl, not because I'm ugly, but because for years I mistakenly thought that if he was going to come, he'd come alone. Then I realized that if you want a partner, you have to find one. But honestly, I feel good without one; I've learned to control my animalistic reproductive urges. I started masturbating at 13, when masturbation was promoted at school. I stopped a few months ago because it's a waste of sperm. When I masturbated, I felt weak for a few days; it's a waste of vitality. So now I practice sperm retention like the Buddhists do, and since I stopped, I feel better. I don't know why anyone here promotes wasting sperm...
thank you for your patience.

Based on my understanding, no one here promotes indulging or not indulging in sex, it is stated in ToZ that everyone is free whether you choose to indulge or to not, whats bad is when someone is forced to not have sex when in fact he craves it so bad and wants it, obviously, no one will force you to have sex if you do not want to, me too i prefer now to sit in nature rather than have sex, sex is good, but when i rate the whole experience, sex is like 7/10 and lasts hours at best , nature feels 10/10 and lasts as long as i want, when i discussed that with friends i discovered not all people can see a tree the same way i see it, so for them sex is better and they are right, they just see nature as a boring thing, but when i see a tree, she is looking at me and reflecting the sun lights and the wind is moving her and a bird comes and start singing, it is just so good to be true to the point i have urge to ask people do you see that?

 

[Daniel6]

L'energia sessuale è molto importante se programmata per attrarre o materializzare qualcosa.

È anche molto importante per la Kundalini.

How is sexual energy programmed?

 

[coral__]

Non ho mai avuto una ragazza e non ho mai baciato una ragazza, non perché sono brutto, ma perché per anni ho pensato erroneamente che se doveva venire, sarebbe venuto da sola. Poi ho capito che se vuoi una compagna devi cercarla. Ma onestamente mi sento bene anche senza, ho imparato a controllare i miei impulsi riproduttivi animaleschi. Ho iniziato a masturbarmi a 13 anni, quando a scuola promuovevano la masturbazione. Ho smesso qualche mese fa perché è uno spreco di sperma, quando mi masturbavo mi sentivo debole per qualche giorno, è uno spreco di vitalità, quindi ora pratico la ritenzione dello sperma come fanno i buddisti, e da quando ho smesso mi sento meglio, non so perché qui ci sia qualcuno che promuove lo spreco di sperma...
thank you for your patience

Ciao! C'è la sezione italiana apposta se hai difficoltà nell'inglese
Dovrò risponderti in inglese in quanto questo è il forum principale quindi abbi la pazienza di tradurre con Google o con qualsiasi strumento ti sia utile.

First of all, masturbating it's not wrong. Sexual energy, as Anemos stated, is very important and it's a very powerful manifestation tool. Check your birtchart as you might have placements that enhance this such strong 8th house one.

I don't know who told you that it's a waste of sperm or a waste of vitality. You keep producing it as long as you're young and healthy, it's not something you will run out of on a random Thursday because you masturbated...
Something similar should be the same for women but it's truly not...
What's true is that you don't have to feel forced in engaging in this activity or feel forced in finding a partner but do mind that it's something that could enhance your life. The Gods want us to go out there and connect with people, have friends and a partner too.

Sexual needs are natural and not something we should be ashamed of.
Don't talk about yourself as "someone who needs to control their instincts"... You're human. You're ok for having sexual desires and needs.
You don't have to find a lifelong partner if you don't want it... Manifest/find a girl who's up for casual encounters and who's compatible with you.
Obviously, I'm giving for granted that you respect other people, girls and boys.

If you felt weak after it, you were probably doing it too much, forcing it or just not a very good or healthy way.
You could also have a weak Mars or Sun that should be strengthen for your overall health too.

Buddhism is crap... Please, don't follow those programs as they are a revised version of enemy programs for the East.
Zevism offers you the healthiest and truest option.