logicalmind
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Using a GEBO rune for 100 days in order to cast a spell seems like some determination in achieving the goal. Still, I would like to ask the following. What have you done additionally during those 100 days in order to become more loveable, i.e., to make sure the spell cast would work better? Maybe you have detected your personal flaws that you have fixed? Or maybe you improved in other ways as a person.Greetings, High Priestess Lydia, tomorrow I have to ask the girl I enchanted with the GEBO Rune for 100 days if she would like to go out on a date with me. I already mentioned her to you under your Mercury retrograde sermon.
Could I please ask if you also have any advice regarding the asking for dates part? I wish she could know what kind of person I really am as I know her because she is always kind and friendly to me. I'm not afraid that she might refuse in the name of friendship, but I'm afraid that she might refuse because I won't be able to handle the situation of asking her out in the most correct way.
Even the tests I experience with friends to try how to ask her out make me feel a lot of anxiety and it's a total failure where I can't say what's in my head...
I know it shouldn't be said, but I think that I am suitable for her as a boyfriend, at least much more suitable than the other guys with whom she has been in toxic and unethical relationships... that's why I cast a spell on her with GEBO, I wanted to encourage our relationship without "forcing" her to love me, but generating this love spontaneously in her (the role of the GEBO rune) ... I really feel so much for her and I know I do because I've felt so much for many girls in the past, but nothing compared to how I feel for this one.
If it's not a problem for you, could I ask you for some advice on how to ask her out in the most effective way, please? Obviously only if you like... Thank you so much!!!
PS I will ask to go out by phone because by text I would have less "debate" on the situation and therefore less control over its management.
One thing I notice from your post and mentions about anxiety is that it appears you have overinvested emotionally in that person. For that single person you used the GEBO rune for 100 days. I wonder if she is worth it. If you think that she is worthy, then why do you think so? Can you provide at least 5-10 reasons why she is worthy of your attention despite looks and other external easily detectable factors that anyone can have without any huge effort?
And even if she is worthy of your affection, I would still not see adequate reason to be overinvested that much. Why? Because she might reject you which is up to her, and there is no Magick in the Universe which would force her not to reject you on her own free will. What are you going to do if she rejects you? Will you be able to handle it easily and move on? There is no question about what happens if she accepts you, since this is easy. The hard and interesting stuff starts when you have to fight for something. When you have to deal with undesirable results. And you also need to understand when it is worth fighting, and when it is better to move on.
Regarding asking a woman out, I think jews added too much bullshit about this. From my experience, asking a woman out results in less affection, she might even feel stressed. This is because you put her in the dating context (and her imagination about that context mostly depends on how the jewish bs movies set-up those contexts, thus you are making stuff hard for yourself, either) which is obligation, and then she feels forced to think through lots of stuff, such as: what to wear, what to speak, what to eat, who pays for the first, second date, and so on. And also she thinks a lot about how to scan you to the tiniest details, especially red flags. In other words, by asking out you ask her to invest in you emotionally, and depending on the personality it might be the case that she would then invest her attention way more than she feels you are worthy of. Maybe you do not have 10/10 looks for more investment, maybe she does not know you well enough or maybe there are other reasons that are important to her. So it is up to you to make sure she knows you well enough to decide if you are worthy of her attention and further thinking or not.
This is how you really "date". You do not say: "Hey, Alice. Would you like to come on a date with me?" Instead, you create the conditions for her to desire to be with you. So much so that she would be willing to leave her boyfriend if she had one. Of course, I do not recommend this for the majority of people, but I can say there CAN be a situation where it would be better for the woman you like to leave her boyfriend and be with you. And I know I did not provide any details, since they depend from person to person, but if people do some consistent spiritual work, they should have a high level of intuition to deduce necessary sequences of actions by themselves in order to combine their use of Magick, improving themselves, and setting up the conditions for the opposite sex they want to have good time together and potential future depending on how this time together goes to them.
As for your strategy for approach (using text message), I think it is not something that would work. Maybe she will accept, we do not know that. But still it should be preferable to build relationships in real life. If I were you, I would try to form a connection with her in real life, so it naturally would grow to something more than friendship. And this is done by being and doing something together. For instance, if you have some interesting stuff to do, you can invite her not expecting her for a date. In this way, you would put her in a context to have just a good time without any expectations. Of course, this should not be like this: “Hey, Alice. Would you like to come to my home to watch a movie?” This would be “slightly” idiotic in this case. You should understand that for a woman to like you, you need to create a connection with her that she would feel emotional about you.
To summarize, we need to be as conscious as possible even in our love lives. It is a jewish bullshit that we “fall” in love randomly without being able to do anything about it. No, we do not. We always come to some decision. For some people it is more conscious, for other people it is subconscious. But the decision to love or not to love is always made.