First: Don't panic, I'm 21, my girlfriend had a baby and I had to learn to live with it. I hated it for quite awhile, thought I'd have to leave.
But I chose to stay out of love. Guess what? Now I love the kid too.
Lots of compromises, but first thing first. DONT PANIC.
Second: Don't think life ends when you have a child. It doesnt.
Do you have to go out every night? No. Do you need to play ps3 24/24?
No. Guess what, a baby sleeps ALOT and there will atleast be ONE person who's going to take care of it more than you will.
Third: Don't think this prevents you from ever leaving and loving someone else. You'll always be the father of that kid but who cares if you stop loving his mother? The earliest you'll do that the more the kid won't care.
Fourth: Yes, it makes thing more complicated but do it right and you won't have to do it again, nor will you ever regret not having done it once. You will have a been there done that attitude. Much better to rock out carelessly when you havent missed a thing in your entire life. Hell, I'll be rocking out carelessly around 40, you know, with money up my ass, no kids to take care of and no regrets.
Fifth: It is NOT okay to kill out of fear. This is what the xians
have done for centuries. As a satanist, you need to be strong.
When you feel weak, then work to grow stronger.
Plus, the kid might die by itself in a few weeks. Happens to alot of people, more than you'd think. Guess what though, it almost always
deal a big amount of pain to the mother that can follow her through all of her life. You don't want to be responsible for that.
Sixth: If after a few years you still hate your kid, then leave.
Leave and pay your part. Your kid wont be attached to you, the mother
will find a loving father and you will fulfill your responsability.
MOST IMPORTANTLY: DO NOT PANIC, relax, it's okay. Stop worrying.
Just close your eyes, take a deep breath and see whats going to happen. Some things will happen no matter what but you can ALWAYS
adapt. How you deal with it is ALWAYS your choice. No one else.
Free will is one of our gifts.
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[url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "youcall2011" <youcall2011@... wrote:
I am desperate,i need hellp,my girlfriend is pragnet i think,4 a week now,i had unprotected sex with her 2 weeks ago,can you tell me a ritual or a meditation for an avortion???????Hail satan plz brothers hellp me even with a hint or something,if she will have a baby i will die for good,i will kill miself,hail Satan