Sexuality #79000 Bdsm/control kink

[Ask Satya Operator]

Is it unhealthy to want to be controlled and punished? I enjoy this type of behavior and wish my partner would engage with it more. Or should I try to lessen this? I think a part of it stems from trauma. But I also just enjoy the safety of someone else telling me what to do (if I trust them fully). And I enjoy feeling pain. Should I indulge this a little bit (not to an extreme where I actually get really injured or something) or is it bad altogether? It makes me feel safe and I don't know if I can change being wired like that

 

[Anemos Aiteros]

That may be related to masochism, the m in bdsm, the desire to feel pain.

The important thing is to avoid the pleasure of feel pain, the rest should be decided unanimously in the couple.