Relationships #78020 I struggle to talk to normal people... I've tried

[AskSatanOperator]

Should I just always avoid normies whenever possible, or try to get to know them. Is there really any point?

I only want to talk about intellectual topics, but my self-esteem takes a hit when I try to talk on their level of nonsense and I am inevitably rejected.

Is it okay to just avoid them? Or should I still try? Idk.

 

[Renita]

It is very hard to have dumb-down yourself to talk to most people (especially about spiritual matters), but protecting yourself is more important. Silence is Golden.

Most of my friends are either xians or some version of an atheist. I still have normal day to day conversations with them and still can talk and have fun with them. Don't isolate yourself just because they are not at the same level as you. Humans are social and need communication.

Depending on what you mean by "intellectual" topics, if you act a certain way, you will attract certain people. If you act like an idiot, then you will attract idiots, vice versa.

Cleaning, empowering and programming your aura to attract certain people also works well.

 

[Henu the Great]

You should find other intellectuals where such people gather to meet people who are "on your level" regarding topics you are interested in.

 

[Helleniser]

You can still find something in common with most people. It's important to keep contact with friends from all walks of life. The real flex is being able to communicate both with construction workers and doctors. We here in the ToZ may be more spiritual, but we're not Christian monks. We are active in society.

 

[Masterj810610]

You should find other intellectuals where such people gather to meet people who are "on your level" regarding topics you are interested in.

I have one place for sure: demonicarmy.com/invite/SQGR0Cbr

Come and socialize with Zevists.

And like Helleniser said, you should try to find some subject with normies too. Its part of the Path. Imagine when Zevism will be the only religion and normies asking question to learn, you will have to speak to them.

I am like you but I've been better at it in the last couple of months. You only need to dive in it.

 

[OttoHart]

Not all friendships are deep unions, where lives and paths conjoin. Those are "true" friendships, yes, but one only really gets to have a few of those.

"Regular" friendships are needed for a healthy life. People you share a hobby with, healthy relationships with co-workers, clubs you may go to, education and further studies (there's nothing wrong with going to seminaries, book clubs or other "intellectual" endeavors even if one is 30 and out of college), friends you go hit on girls with if you're single, friends to share a beer with or watch a movie with.

This is necessary for grounding. Don't ignore any of your chart's houses, so to say.