Relationships #77969 being atracted to "negative people"

[AskSatanOperator]

Is is healthy to be attracted to someone that is kinda "negative", and you like it cause you can help this person and make them happy? Not like a borderline depressed and etc kinda person, who is extremely negative, but someone who have bad habits and want to change for good.

Or I should only seek for people that are "good persons"?

 

[Kaemythra]

Everyone has problems to overcome, if this person wants to get rid of a bad habit you can help them but they also have to make an effort to overcome it. If this person really wants to change then he/she can do it + your help.

 

[Sungio13]

Being attracted to those in need can happen, but just be careful to temper your expectations.

The world is unfortunately filled with those who want to work on any problems they're facing but never actually do anything, or it takes them years to barely move in the right direction. Overall, this can be a major loss of time and energy given to these people.

Just be aware of this and good luck to you.

 

[CharlesBenetton]

Is is healthy to be attracted to someone that is kinda "negative", and you like it cause you can help this person and make them happy? Not like a borderline depressed and etc kinda person, who is extremely negative, but someone who have bad habits and want to change for good.

Or I should only seek for people that are "good persons"?

You can try to help him/her if you see potential in that person. Be cautious and avoid putting yourself in danger for someone else's sake. If it takes too long for that person, and your schedule is full to the point you can't give yourself time. Leave him/her.

 

[616Taysha]

Be wary not to play a saviour for a martyr who deserves damnation, not salvation. Some people are leeches and deserve to be starved. Check whether you don't have any 12th house transit (especially of Venus) and/or Neptune/Venus aspects.

"Maybe, maybe if they see me and how much I give to them, they'll see how much Iove them" or some bs like that. If one is a Zevist, there are other, more valuable people to whom you can devote your time, yourself 1st and foremost.

 

[alphamale666]

I dont think its bad. There are negative people out there who really need help to overcome any obstacle.

 

[616Taysha]

I dont think its bad. There are negative people out there who really need help to overcome any obstacle.

I'd say people who are lost AND want to change. Negative people are just a vortex which sucks others in, and as such should be starved.

Let negative people stew in their own negativity until they either perish, or transform themselves. A win-win either way.