Sexuality #77961 are my sexual tastes a weird obsession ? [Trigger Warning: Sexual Kink]

[AskSatanOperator]

Spoiler: [Trigger Warning: Sexual Kink]

This post from HP Lydia made me think about a question I never asked to myself.

Obsessions: Detach, Sublimate, Manage

Scorpio, the sign of the occult… and also obsessions. Many members have this sign, or other aspects within your natal chart, that cause obsessions. Another factor is spells, magick caused by the enemy. Those with an open 3rd Eye and/or strong aura can see through spells easier and move away from...

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I am in my early twenties. I frequently masturbate with, in mind, images of former classmates, usually high-school. There are often the same people that come to my mind.

Is this habit healthy ?
Is it p****philia to masturbate to memories of people who were 15-16 years old at the time?
I've thought about this last question in the past (concluding I am not a p****phile because the majority of people I had actual sex with were older than me), but I think it's a good time to ask this to someone outside.

Finally, I must precise that I also masturbate to other topics. Such as older people I meet or porn videos. But these memories form high school definitely seems more "romantic" and attractive to me.

 

[Recycler1337]

16 years is not pedophilia.Ephebophilia is normal because this age is the beginning of the discovery of sexual life and everything that is the first time is of course brighter and leaves an impression.But still it is not normal to live in the past and masturbate to porn - please find yourself a partner.I would not advise you to find yourself a partner with a big age difference - because this will negatively affect the relationship, but there are always exceptions.

 

[Disciple of the Serpent]

Spoiler: [Trigger Warning: Sexual Kink]

This post from HP Lydia made me think about a question I never asked to myself.

Obsessions: Detach, Sublimate, Manage

Scorpio, the sign of the occult… and also obsessions. Many members have this sign, or other aspects within your natal chart, that cause obsessions. Another factor is spells, magick caused by the enemy. Those with an open 3rd Eye and/or strong aura can see through spells easier and move away from...

ancient-forums.com

I am in my early twenties. I frequently masturbate with, in mind, images of former classmates, usually high-school. There are often the same people that come to my mind.

Is this habit healthy ?
Is it p****philia to masturbate to memories of people who were 15-16 years old at the time?
I've thought about this last question in the past (concluding I am not a p****phile because the majority of people I had actual sex with were older than me), but I think it's a good time to ask this to someone outside.

Finally, I must precise that I also masturbate to other topics. Such as older people I meet or porn videos. But these memories form high school definitely seems more "romantic" and attractive to me.

I was on the same situation as you, that stuff feels more real with more impact as it's about people you know and you had experiences with.

But in the end it's just an obsession that brings nothing, and overall these are misplaced sexual energies.

Porn is also really bad, worse than the other classmate obsession.

About the p****philia worry, it's just you playing in your own mind, it's nothing real.
When I was on my twenties I felt some attraction to 14 years old, some girls just look older than their age, and sometimes it's just difficult to see how old they are.
But for the rest these are just immature and not a real deal. I would say that something bad is when people of 12 or lower age are involved.

But all this fantasy game above is teenager stuff, you are an adult now, it's important to have important aims such as having a family and the like, legally with someone adult, and act for these.

 

[AFODO]

I don't think it's bad. Especially in memories, there is no much difference between 16 and early twenties in appearance. But yeah if you were 70 and would masturbate to teens in your memory that's different.

But you are good in this case I would say, just look for a partner, do love spell. Or try escorts if you can't get any for a longer period of time.

 

[Karnonnos [TG]]

No. A memory you were involved in, being (often) chronologically younger than those people, cannot constitute pedophilia. A lot of people sexually idealize that period of their life, it is the most vivid and shocking for them. To be brutal, frankly, for many people, it is fated in our very messed up society to be sexually downhill from there, which it shouldn't be, yet is. It is not pedophilia anyway, there is a very hard dividing line with what that is.

On the other hand, it is better to move on from these people and look towards others if this is an obsession and not an occasional erotic reminiscence. You cannot live in the past. Male sexuality stagnates and becomes weird without momentum.

 

[Slavic]

A man is not just a guy who is 2 meters tall and has a lot of muscles. What he has in his head also counts, yes, appearance is important, a healthy psyche is the most important. I am not tall, I have longer hair, my age does not reflect how old I am. But these are advantages, no one attacks me, I do not arouse aggression, on the contrary, I can handle everything gently. If necessary, I can defend myself and give someone fire. Balance between everything is the most important. You can be big, typically masculine, and stupid.

 

[CatDoll]

I don't think it's bad. Especially in memories, there is no much difference between 16 and early twenties in appearance. But yeah if you were 70 and would masturbate to teens in your memory that's different.

Aperance is not mean anything. 30 and 34 wouldnt be that different but 16 years old girl and 20 years old girl is totally different bc its still their developing ages (mostly mentally)

But you are good in this case I would say, just look for a partner, do love spell. Or try escorts if you can't get any for a longer period of time.

Buying sex by paying money can cause problems for your sacral chakra and sexual karma. (as i remember)

 

[AFODO]

16 years old girl and 20 years old girl is totally different

No.

Buying sex by paying money can cause problems for your sacral chakra and sexual karma. (as i remember)

Any sex is better than no sex, of course I'm not saying to do this with a random gypsy from the streets, but elite (your race) escorts. And no it won't give you bad karma or problems, it's 100x better than porn, but also worse than having a girlfriend. Real sexual satisfaction is needed, if anything, not having sex is what damages your sacral chakra.

Prostitution was also real and accepted in the ancient world.

 

[CatDoll]

No.

Really? i am going to highschool and i dated a 20 year old guy before. It was terrible we were really different places and vibrations in life. Also we are calling 20 years old friends ''abla'' (wich means elder sister) cuz they are really experiencing different things.

Any sex is better than no sex, of course I'm not saying to do this with a random gypsy from the streets, but elite (your race) escorts. And no it won't give you bad karma or problems, it's 100x better than porn, but also worse than having a girlfriend. Real sexual satisfaction is needed, if anything, not having sex is what damages your sacral chakra.

Prostitution was also real and accepted in the ancient world.

Really? i used to know that being escort or doing sexual jobs like onlyfans or somethin create you a bad sacral karma, if it is also requesting this service creates bad karma?

 

[AFODO]

Really? i am going to highschool and i dated a 20 year old guy before. It was terrible we were really different places and vibrations in life. Also we are calling 20 years old friends ''abla'' (wich means elder sister) cuz they are really experiencing different things.

Every people are different and let's also not stay out of context, we are talking about memories not actual things.

Really? i used to know that being escort or doing sexual jobs like onlyfans or somethin create you a bad sacral karma, if it is also requesting this service creates bad karma?

Real physical prostitution is different from online prostitution, online is not real, you are not giving any value or real service to anyone, it's bad and also putting out teasing and hot pics is bad for man, it's degrading for them sexually.

However giving real sexual intercourse for man is healthy and good, since it's real.
And again this does not create bad karma, rather, satisfying other's need in this real and healthy way is actually "giving" and creates good karma / burns bad karma.

For woman out there who do these prostitution online should be doing this offline. These things are also not for everyone, not every woman should or can become a prostitute, only very few.

 

[ΑΡΗΣ_666]

Male sexuality stagnates and becomes weird without momentum.

so true

 

[CatDoll]

Real physical prostitution is different from online prostitution, online is not real, you are not giving any value or real service to anyone, it's bad and also putting out teasing and hot pics is bad for man, it's degrading for them sexually.

However giving real sexual intercourse for man is healthy and good, since it's real.
And again this does not create bad karma, rather, satisfying other's need in this real and healthy way is actually "giving" and creates good karma / burns bad karma.

For woman out there who do these prostitution online should be doing this offline. These things are also not for everyone, not every woman should or can become a prostitute, only very few.

Thans for answer<3

I have said before that women who are prostitutes cannot be judged, their identity belongs to them. (in another thread)

I was told that it was wrong to sell the body and sexuality that the gods gave for money. He also said that prostitution could be pursued as a controlled profession.
But i actually didnt get anything about the word ''controlled''

 

[CatDoll]

identity

bodies*

 

[alphamale666]

I dont think its bad. I mean theyre just memories. So you dont have nothing to worry about.