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Relationships #77388 My soul has suffered so much damage. Is there any chance I can go back?

If you are alive, you are able to work to improve yourself and heal yourself, and work to create a better life. This is why we are here.
 
Take it easy. You can move forward little by little. It's only going to be as easy as you make it for yourself. I understand the first steps may be very difficult but breaking the inertia will build momentum, and things will get better by keeping that momentum going. Remember to be kind to yourself.

Whether you were responsible or not for the damage, and how much, doesn't matter that much because it's in the past. Things that went wrong are things you can learn from gradually without attaching judgment or a lot of emotion to it. By that of course I don't mean you should deny or suppress how you feel. Accepting it, knowing it's there, but not letting it dominate your life is how you move forward, and how you can learn from it.

A good starting point can be the emotional healing working from HPS Lydia, which I link for you here: https://ancient-forums.com/threads/...body-for-men-too-don’t-disregard-this.292496/

Your confidence and self-worth may have been affected. If that's the case and you have access to the self-confidence seminar released to the donors, it would help you to work with the material at your own pace.

Not giving up is the first act of self-love you can perform right now. And if you need more help with the steps to healing and moving forward, don't hesitate to speak to us more. We have people from different backgrounds and different levels of experience dealing with life hurdles here, and we're happy to support you on your path.

All the best!
 

Al Jilwah: Chapter IV

"It is my desire that all my followers unite in a bond of unity, lest those who are without prevail against them." - Shaitan

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