Relationships I can't understand what's happening

[Liria]

My relationship feels unstable.
He makes me nervous because I perceive him as immature. He has become so dependent on his family that every decision I make or action I take is somehow communicated to them. He is my husband, and I feel unable to leave home. I don’t understand whether I’m the one with a distorted view of the situation.
Can someone help me, perhaps through a reading of the future?
I feel deprived of my freedom, as if there’s a weight pressing on my sixth chakra.

 

[GoldenxChild1]

If you feel like your husband is crossing boundaries that you may not have realized you had until now, then you need to communicate with him about how you are feeling.

If you want privacy, tell him that. If you want maturity, tell him that.

Also, ensure that you are keeping a regular routine of important fundamentals, like yoga and an AOP, etc.

 

[AFODO]

Tell him to grow the fuck up and be a man.

 

[Tethys333]

My relationship feels unstable.
He makes me nervous because I perceive him as immature. He has become so dependent on his family that every decision I make or action I take is somehow communicated to them. He is my husband, and I feel unable to leave home. I don’t understand whether I’m the one with a distorted view of the situation.
Can someone help me, perhaps through a reading of the future?
I feel deprived of my freedom, as if there’s a weight pressing on my sixth chakra.

you don't need of a reading of the future. it's all obvious.
Yes, he is immature and not very independent. You need a MAN by your side, not a child. If you know he cannot fulfill your desires, leave him. Don't chain yourself to him just because he is your husband. Put yourself first, always remember that. Good luck

 

[ramses13th]

Tell him to grow the fuck up and be a man.

+1

 

[Liria]

Tell him to grow the fuck up and be a man.

He doesn't seem to change, I told him so sweetly. Yet I carry a wound inside, because he shares almost everything about me with others. Now I feel the weight of other people's gazes, as if I were constantly judged and held back. It's an oppressive sensation. He's a good person, I recognize that, but he can't really understand how I feel. And staying like this hurts me. I love him, and I live in his house. I don't have another place to stay, and I have little money, I feel lost. I would like to understand if it's worth insisting on changing this situation or if it's time to walk away. He's a person I love and who has always loved me back.

If you feel like your husband is crossing boundaries that you may not have realized you had until now, then you need to communicate with him about how you are feeling.

If you want privacy, tell him that. If you want maturity, tell him that.

Also, ensure that you are keeping a regular routine of important fundamentals, like yoga and an AOP, etc.

I will try to do meditations to be stronger both mentally and physically. Thanks

 

[Tethys333]

Now I feel the weight of other people's gazes, as if I were constantly judged and held back.

people will always judge since they do not know how to identify with others, they are superficial and do not know what is happening to you. You have to resign yourself. it's not what people think that matters now

but he can't really understand how I feel.

Mutual understanding is the basis of love and relationships in general. If it oppresses you obviously it is a situation you need to get away from.

 

[616Taysha]

Tell him to grow the fuck up and be a man.

@Liria ...or else you will divorce him - if a man is a pussy, I see no reason why a worthy woman should stay in a miserable relationship.

If you don't have any children, do consider thteatening him with divorce.

If he has been taking you for granted - and men tend to do that - shake his certainty. As 'toxic' as it sounds, you deserve a MAN, not a pussified adult.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

You don't need to go right to divorcing him. But explain to him exactly what the problem is and how badly it affects you, and don't be so sweet about it. Tell him exactly what you need to say.

 

[616Taysha]

And by exactly, it is meant in a masculine way.

Subtlety is feminine, directness is masculine.

Frankly, plainly, no beating about the bush, naively hoping he'll SOMEHOW get it. Hopefully he will get a motivational kick in his rump and MAN UP.