I want to break up a couple

[onemage666]

Dear brothers and sisters. I dated someone for about a year and a half she was the love of my life. Unfortunately I am kind of a barbarian and didn’t tend to her emotional needs. So she broke up with me. I have had six months to think about where I went wrong. I took a shot in the dark to see if she will be open to taking to me. I first sent her flowers. When I didn’t get told to go fuck myself I decided ti take another step. So I wrote two notes on with things I was sorry for and another with things I promised to do. I also bought a bunch of thoughtful gifts of things she is into. It wasn’t about the gifts it was about the notes and the fact that I realized what I had done. He have been in contact recently however she says she just stated seeing Someone. Here is what is confusing she recently asked me to go to dinner. We went to dinner and things went pretty good besides the other guy calling while we were eating.I pulled my big boy pants up and sucked up the pain and finished dinner. Then we went back to her house and talked for a bit also we kissed/made out. I know she likes me or she would have just told me fuck off in here own words. So here is what happed then next day I feel like we are making progress. But I knew my stomach was turning and my intuition Was going insane. I asked her if she would like to come over after I get off work. She says she can’t she is going out of town. I instantly knew it was with Ryan. Who she says she doesn’t live but just because I came back into her life I cannot snap my fingers and she come back. Mind you, I am in love with this woman. I want to spend my life with her. Her going out of town with him knowing how I feel is ripping apart my soul. I have never felt like this and I’m not a kid I have been through some shit. What can I do? What are the strongest spells I can do. I need some guidance please. Please help me

 

[Henu the Great]

This is one way: https://satanisgod.org/www.angelfire.com/empire/serpentis666/Love_Spell.html

To break up a couple or to deter a potential interest, you would put an aura of revulsion around the person you wish to isolate. For example, "[name of person]’s aura is repelling all of [name of person interested or in love with] interests, affection and attraction in every way. [Name of person] is revolting and repulsive to [name of person interested or in love with]." You infuse the energy into the aura of the person you want to keep isolated from the one who has an interest. You get the basic idea. One’s aura will act on the other and create an indifference, or even enmity. It can take a lot of energy, but in breaking up a couple, you can do this to each of their auras so that they find each other disgusting and break up.

 

[Aquarius]

Henu answered your question.

Here's my answer: Why do you want to be with somebody who doesn't reciprocate your love and is literally seeing you and another person at once? You need to have some self respect and be honest with yourself.

 

[onemage666]

I saw that one and have started doing it. Do you know anything else I can do as well. Also I there something I should do to charge up my energy before doing that spell

 

[darkmonkey666]

Dear brothers and sisters. I dated someone for about a year and a half she was the love of my life. Unfortunately I am kind of a barbarian and didn’t tend to her emotional needs. So she broke up with me. I have had six months to think about where I went wrong. I took a shot in the dark to see if she will be open to taking to me. I first sent her flowers. When I didn’t get told to go fuck myself I decided ti take another step. So I wrote two notes on with things I was sorry for and another with things I promised to do. I also bought a bunch of thoughtful gifts of things she is into. It wasn’t about the gifts it was about the notes and the fact that I realized what I had done. He have been in contact recently however she says she just stated seeing Someone. Here is what is confusing she recently asked me to go to dinner. We went to dinner and things went pretty good besides the other guy calling while we were eating.I pulled my big boy pants up and sucked up the pain and finished dinner. Then we went back to her house and talked for a bit also we kissed/made out. I know she likes me or she would have just told me fuck off in here own words. So here is what happed then next day I feel like we are making progress. But I knew my stomach was turning and my intuition Was going insane. I asked her if she would like to come over after I get off work. She says she can’t she is going out of town. I instantly knew it was with Ryan. Who she says she doesn’t live but just because I came back into her life I cannot snap my fingers and she come back. Mind you, I am in love with this woman. I want to spend my life with her. Her going out of town with him knowing how I feel is ripping apart my soul. I have never felt like this and I’m not a kid I have been through some shit. What can I do? What are the strongest spells I can do. I need some guidance please. Please help me

I believe this is not ethical especially if you didn't treat the person very nicely or pay any attention to her needs. You should just have to live with this unless your willing to treat her better next time or the other guy is treating her wrong then go ahead. There are a lot of complex ethical considerations for this spell if you are to "do the right thing" I believe if you are just going to treat her badly again this amounts to psychic attack and harassment and a misuse of occult power.

If you are going to treat her nicely or better go ahead and do the spell and good luck.

A freeing the soul meditation to remove the links in one of both people. Remove the energy and influence of the partner from one or both people.
Munka Ansuz Uruz svantantrata mjolnir etc can all be used.

While doing this program that one or both partners do not like each other and/or create a barrier between the two that prevents understanding of each other make one or both people closed to the other. Eihwaz and Jebo and Raidho can be useful here Jera if you want to bring changes to the life situation that will break up the relationship.

 

[onemage666]

I didn’t not treat her terrible. I just was not sensitive to things I should have been and was very dismissive of her beliefs and things like that. I was super cocky and arrogant. We really never fought. I have had six months to think about my behavior and how I want to change it. Can you please be more specific on what exactly i should do.

 

[Soul Wings]

This is a waste of time. I used to do this kind of petty stuff back when I was 16. Why not put all that energy into finding a healthy relationship (not off again on again, this never works out. and neither does pity dating) with someone else. I suggest learning from your mistakes (you are extremely lucky she told you why btw) and treat the next girl better. If you are not ready for a relationship and the responsibilities of one, do not have one, or have casual relationships instead.
In regards to what you are saying about "being a barbarian". Emotional needs are a responsibility of a relationship and everyone has different levels of requirements. You need to do some self reflection and decide whether you want someone less "needy" (yes, you can find less emotionally needy women) or whether you can step up emotionally and actively participate instead of stuffing everything away and using a relationship for convenience sake. Maybe even consider there might be issues here that need therapy/research.
(I did this myself for my current relationship to stop myself from self-sabotage.)
Or, you can keep going like you are now, and waste more time. It's really up to you.

 

[Henu the Great]

I didn’t not treat her terrible. I just was not sensitive to things I should have been and was very dismissive of her beliefs and things like that. I was super cocky and arrogant. We really never fought. I have had six months to think about my behavior and how I want to change it. Can you please be more specific on what exactly i should do.

You have already been provided enough resources for what you request in the OP. If you do not understand how these things work then you need to study and practice more.

 

[Blitzkreig [JG]]

I didn’t not treat her terrible. I just was not sensitive to things I should have been and was very dismissive of her beliefs and things like that. I was super cocky and arrogant. We really never fought. I have had six months to think about my behavior and how I want to change it. Can you please be more specific on what exactly i should do.

If you have her natal chart, check the synastry between you guys. That will show both points of love and conflict.

If you are too cocky, then you need to work on your water abilities. This can take the form of planetary squares like a moon or venus square. Also, you can use equivalent runes, such as Gebo or Berkano to make you more sensitive/able to respond to people's feelings.

 

[onemage666]

Thank you everyone for your great information and advice. Some of you are off a little bit but I don’t need to go into all of that or explain why. I do appreciate anyone who took the time to give me some of there knowledge.