Impatience

[MercuryWisdom]

How do you guys deal with impatience?

I don’t know how to explain it specifically but for me impatience has always been a weak point.

I think it physically, emotionally and mentally hurts me not to get what I want right now or as soon as possible or even yesterday.

I don’t know how to deal with the day-to-day impatience to get what I want.

I know logically that life doesn’t work in the fast line and the Gods are big on patience and reality needs time for change. But I can’t handle that, I feel.

 

[Renita]

If we are looking at this from a psychological perspective, it suggests that impatience can be a defense mechanism against unconscious fears about the passing of time and the limitations of life. Impatience in adulthood also stems from the way the parents raise and act when a kid cries when they don't get what they want. If we are talking about impatience with advancement; then try to think about building a house: you have to take time and strength to build a strong base so that everything else can be done faster as you advance. Also remember that impatience is not inherently a bad thing; it can force you to strive for things that a docile person who just lives life to live won't.

Many people believe that ~ 78 years of living is not enough to fulfill your dreams and ambitions and that everything has to be done in a set amount of time and if it isn't, they throw a fit. Yet, if a person strives for their goals every single day, those ~78 years are filled to the brim with things you have or can achieve.

Some practices I have done for myself to control my impatience in a positive matter would be by focusing on the now. Worrying too much about the future or the past can bring unnecessary stress and can also be a trigger for impatience and worry for not achieving a set goal. Make sure to take small steps to goals, and be kind to yourself. We are all individuals who need our own time.

 

[CharlesBenetton]

You might try sitting at the table when you are hungry. And wait to eat for 5-15 minutes. Look at your dinner/breakfast, smell it, but never eat. Resist your urges and make them understand who is in charge.

You can hypnotize yourself with a simple affirmation, such as "I am always patient and I understand the importance of patience in a positive way for me," right after you wake up and before going to sleep. You can also invoke Earth if you haven't already. It helps greatly.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

If we are looking at this from a psychological perspective, it suggests that impatience can be a defense mechanism against unconscious fears about the passing of time and the limitations of life. Impatience in adulthood also stems from the way the parents raise and act when a kid cries when they don't get what they want. If we are talking about impatience with advancement; then try to think about building a house: you have to take time and strength to build a strong base so that everything else can be done faster as you advance. Also remember that impatience is not inherently a bad thing; it can force you to strive for things that a docile person who just lives life to live won't.

Many people believe that ~ 78 years of living is not enough to fulfill your dreams and ambitions and that everything has to be done in a set amount of time and if it isn't, they throw a fit. Yet, if a person strives for their goals every single day, those ~78 years are filled to the brim with things you have or can achieve.

Some practices I have done for myself to control my impatience in a positive matter would be by focusing on the now. Worrying too much about the future or the past can bring unnecessary stress and can also be a trigger for impatience and worry for not achieving a set goal. Make sure to take small steps to goals, and be kind to yourself. We are all individuals who need our own time.

Thanks sister

 

[Lunar Mojito]

Find something where you enjoy the process and that you could also master. This has to do somethig where there is absolutely no pressure to perform or do well, a pure hobby. i.e. you could try learning to play an instrument. This could be a "safe spot" where you could practice patience and consistency with pure upside and no downside*

*To have no downside it MUST be a pure hobby, something where you can afford for things to not happen. Eventually, this competence (patience) will leak to other areas where the stakes are higher, like finance.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

Find something where you enjoy the process and that you could also master. This has to do somethig where there is absolutely no pressure to perform or do well, a pure hobby. i.e. you could try learning to play an instrument. This could be a "safe spot" where you could practice patience and consistency with pure upside and no downside*

*To have no downside it MUST be a pure hobby, something where you can afford for things to not happen. Eventually, this competence (patience) will leak to other areas where the stakes are higher, like finance.

I have a problem with enjoying the process, even if the process is enjoyable. I want mastery and the results and not the process. Even if its with a hobby or a musical instrument.