[/quote]Personal Growth wrote:T.A.O.L.
Thank you for that and my apologies for for taking so long to reply. Long hours at work and the need to complete meditation and Final RTR always takes precedence.
You know the deal. Just wanted to respect you and take the time to reply properly instead of just rushing something through.
I think we SS are a different breed. And everything you said is spot on true.
I have problems with my relationships but the book. 'Men are from Mars Women are from Venus.' Has helped me understand better.
I always see girls chirping away and In my opinion that is the norm. But it's true we are all different and you do get quiet girls as well.
I was with a maintenance free quiet girl before for 12 years. It was amazing the space and freedom I had.
The girl I'm seeing now fills the description that was given in the book, 'Men are from Mars Women are from Venus.' And that has helped me a lot.
So the book helps with the majority but there's always exceptions.
Still waters run deep.....
With society so programmed and still a little under the enemies spells I think it's better to keep quiet and fly under the radar.
I always think aye I need to look after myself here. Speaking up could go bad for me and not help.
Remember Satans warning that you do not know what those without might do.
What's important is that we keep safe so that we can continue doing the 'Final RTR' every single day.
We've all got different personalities. So what applies here may not apply there.
I agree and thank you for that
And I think that that is BS.
Growing up I was a very reserved person. I didnt let anyone get close to me despite me being more of an emotional person compared to the average. There were things that I didnt speak about or communicate and there are still things that I wont say.
But this shutting up pretending nothing is wrong actually makes people unstable.
Unappreciated advice is annoying on BOTH sides. There is no 'oh a girl always has to give advice'. Even men can do this.
But the true genius lies in knowing when to give it and when not to and other times only when asked. And it doesnt matter if youre a male or female for that matter.
Hey, I had not expected such a reply there thanks.
I've read peoples comments about relationships and how people behave.. and of course we have a world wide arrangement of people in the forums, so one may think 'ey that does not apply'. But there may be other things that look like some kind of insanity.
I am not entirely sure what exactly made me close off, may have been things in my environment growing up. May have been a different reason.
Important is, that one also feels comfortable and confident in expressing certain things. Of course, if you're sure you'll be met with rejection you just shut up.
Mistakes happen all the time and even though it is hard to talk about SS stuff with outsiders, especially because of the straight out rejection and stuff that comes with it..
Reminds me of the sermon where one of the HPs had said that 'some think we may have been here too soon.. ' and continues along the lines of being too late or right on time.
The current world mostly isn't ready to know all the spiritual stuff, but, that doesnt mean that there aren't people that are ready for it.
I think at this point, we are what we are and we do what we have to do (RTRs) regardless of anyone who disagrees with us.
Waiting for the right time sometimes is a waste, especially with everything working against and dragging others down.
A single individual may not seem to be able to do much but we are all single individuals here and look how far we've already come together .
It is also a strength to continue regardless of how many times one may be insulted, but a smooth ride is nice too, and that is where one shuts up about it and continues till its done Secrecy lol.
K I guess I ended up ranting there .. so never mind that.
I haven't been reading the forums in the past few days. For some reason I completely didn't want to nor had the focus to do it. Normally I'd pick up my phone in the morning and check if there is anything new. Haven't done that at all the past few days.
Is a bit strange but alright will just have to go with it.