Love

[Night Sky]

Greetings brothers and sisters.
Is there a way to turn off the desire for love for a few years and then turn it back on when we want to?
To clarify, by 'love' I'm referring to anything related to romantic attachment in general. I'd like to ask this respectfully. According to my natal chart, I have a sensitive temperament, and I know that if I fall in love and it doesn't lead to marriage, it would deeply affect my spirit. Currently, I am not at the right age for marriage and want to wait.

 

[logicalmind]

You do not understand what love is, yet. Love is the long-term consequence of a long-term relationship. What you might feel is passion, desire to be together, etc. Thus, there is no need to shut off love as love will not happen until you get together with the person who is right for you. There is no need to "shut off" what you really are from the inside. Instead of "shutting off", try working on your soul, communicate with the Gods of your own desires/needs and They will definitely help you in those situations as They know best what is needed for you.

 

[Astrid]

Greetings Sister!

You cannot turn off love and romantic desire, and it would be unhealthy to try.

Love is a natural thing, but unfortunately so is loving the wrong person (or someone who becomes wrong for us eventually) sometimes. It is a bittersweet reality of life, when/if it happens to us and allows us to learn lessons and grow.

Virtue II, 'Love & Hate' of Queen Astarte holds so much Divine Wisdom about this reality, I found personally, by placing together seemingly paradoxical forces. It would help to meditate on Her Virtues however feels right for you: https://templeofzeus.org/Ethics_Meditation.php & https://templeofzeus.org/Ethics_Context_Meditation.php

I'm not sure how old you are, I'm assuming you are in your 20s as you've mentioned that you are an adult before.
My practical advice would be to accept that you can also date seriously (as opposed to casually) and still take the steps of opening up and getting to know someone as slow as you feel comfortable doing. This process would also help vet out any ill-intentioned guys. During this time you can do Love Magick to find a well-suited partner.

In my opinion, it wouldn't be good to wait for the very last moment to make a marriage decision just based on age (as an example, being ready for marriage only at 30, then finally deciding to see what's out there) then settling on someone you never took the time to vet thoroughly. An unhappy marriage (just for the sake of marriage) would be worse than an amicable break-up due to differences, etcetera, in my opinion. Especially since you have a sensitive temperament, you should protect yourself and take the steps that prioritise your feelings (having strong boundaries and healthy standards for men is included here).

Feel free to take this advice as it resonates or discard it!

 

[MercuryWisdom]

Greetings brothers and sisters.
Is there a way to turn off the desire for love for a few years and then turn it back on when we want to?
To clarify, by 'love' I'm referring to anything related to romantic attachment in general. I'd like to ask this respectfully. According to my natal chart, I have a sensitive temperament, and I know that if I fall in love and it doesn't lead to marriage, it would deeply affect my spirit. Currently, I am not at the right age for marriage and want to wait.

Unfortunately, there’s no on and off switch. You’ll have to control it with determination instead. But then again falling in love can be fated, you might see it in predictive astrology, but then again it might not last and that will also show.

 

[Flamma Bellum]

Greetings brothers and sisters.
Is there a way to turn off the desire for love for a few years and then turn it back on when we want to?
To clarify, by 'love' I'm referring to anything related to romantic attachment in general. I'd like to ask this respectfully. According to my natal chart, I have a sensitive temperament, and I know that if I fall in love and it doesn't lead to marriage, it would deeply affect my spirit. Currently, I am not at the right age for marriage and want to wait.

For most charts love as well comes later you can find it in your chart and if it is there, you can settle and just focus on other things.

While until true love comes you can not avoid development towards it.

All small and not small relationships which are appearing in our lives until we get real love are actually needed for us to develop our skills in being in relationships and bringing responsibility on our shoulders.

So if you would turn off all these and skip, maturity for real love relationship would not appear out from blue.

I see that path towards Love in our lives is a path of Zevism and Soul development in itself. And all relationships you get into is for your personality and Soul to grow and become more rich in wisdom and understanding which you will be able to provide for your future love partner, to understand yourself mainly, and to do better every time. So determination and purpose.

You as evolving Zevist should be on the positive side of things and what they give you in long term and constitutes to what Gods wants from you to become more Whole Person.

Life is for Living. Sister. Be focused and filter things for yourself, people in our lifes are there for you to eventually to master yourself among them and enlighten the world.

This is why Zevism is life loving Religion. You have to actually meditate more seriously for you to become sharp as laser and identify things when you are in between them without them being influencing you, then any relationship will be like a game for you and will benefit your growth as Zevist and evolve others involved.

 

[Flamma Bellum]

also forgot this, that chart is there for you to manage it and find a balance between what you have there. Healthy strong meditative person will control themselves because of having their heart somewhere higher where is the controller.

Many things in chart with our passion and willingness to do things and live are under control to a degree where it is actually becomes more of benefit for us than not.

Outsiders not meditative people are fully under control of their charts. That’s not a case with us who are disciplined with ourselves.

 

[Night Sky]

Greetings Sister!

You cannot turn off love and romantic desire, and it would be unhealthy to try.

Love is a natural thing, but unfortunately so is loving the wrong person (or someone who becomes wrong for us eventually) sometimes. It is a bittersweet reality of life, when/if it happens to us and allows us to learn lessons and grow.

Virtue II, 'Love & Hate' of Queen Astarte holds so much Divine Wisdom about this reality, I found personally, by placing together seemingly paradoxical forces. It would help to meditate on Her Virtues however feels right for you: https://templeofzeus.org/Ethics_Meditation.php & https://templeofzeus.org/Ethics_Context_Meditation.php

I'm not sure how old you are, I'm assuming you are in your 20s as you've mentioned that you are an adult before.
My practical advice would be to accept that you can also date seriously (as opposed to casually) and still take the steps of opening up and getting to know someone as slow as you feel comfortable doing. This process would also help vet out any ill-intentioned guys. During this time you can do Love Magick to find a well-suited partner.

In my opinion, it wouldn't be good to wait for the very last moment to make a marriage decision just based on age (as an example, being ready for marriage only at 30, then finally deciding to see what's out there) then settling on someone you never took the time to vet thoroughly. An unhappy marriage (just for the sake of marriage) would be worse than an amicable break-up due to differences, etcetera, in my opinion. Especially since you have a sensitive temperament, you should protect yourself and take the steps that prioritise your feelings (having strong boundaries and healthy standards for men is included here).

Feel free to take this advice as it resonates or discard it!

Thank you sister.
I've heard that it is possible to channel life force into something else. I want to fix my problems with my family so I don't have to leave them with a heavy heart.

 

[Night Sky]

You do not understand what love is, yet. Love is the long-term consequence of a long-term relationship. What you might feel is passion, desire to be together, etc. Thus, there is no need to shut off love as love will not happen until you get together with the person who is right for you. There is no need to "shut off" what you really are from the inside. Instead of "shutting off", try working on your soul, communicate with the Gods of your own desires/needs and They will definitely help you in those situations as They know best what is needed for you.

Thank you brother.

 

[Night Sky]

Unfortunately, there’s no on and off switch. You’ll have to control it with determination instead. But then again falling in love can be fated, you might see it in predictive astrology, but then again it might not last and that will also show.

Thank you brother.

 

[Night Sky]

also forgot this, that chart is there for you to manage it and find a balance between what you have there. Healthy strong meditative person will control themselves because of having their heart somewhere higher where is the controller.

Many things in chart with our passion and willingness to do things and live are under control to a degree where it is actually becomes more of benefit for us than not.

Outsiders not meditative people are fully under control of their charts. That’s not a case with us who are disciplined with ourselves.

Thank you brother.