AskSatanOperator
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Hey guys! I'm used to masturbate watching porn for a long time, years to be exact (I believe more than 6 years). I know that it is very bad for the mental health and I want to stop it. But how do I masturbate without it? Do I imagine things with other persons I find attractive? With experiences I've had with other people? Should I imagine things without imagining an specific person? I find it hard to imagine this kind of things without imagining an attractive person or past experiences, even while I watch porn I imagine this kind of thing.
Also I aware that I shouldn't objective people, and I fight these kind of thoughts, but the negative effects that's been giving to me is that I am kinda anxious around the opposite sex (specifically the people I find attractive) and its difficult for me to start a conversation/interaction with them (I'm also a little like this with my sex as well, but the opposite sex gives me more anxiety). But at the same time, when I make a connection with some one, I can be very open about my sexual life, problems etc, and this makes me think I've not been so damaged with it.
HAIL ALL THE GODS OF THE GENTILES!
Also I aware that I shouldn't objective people, and I fight these kind of thoughts, but the negative effects that's been giving to me is that I am kinda anxious around the opposite sex (specifically the people I find attractive) and its difficult for me to start a conversation/interaction with them (I'm also a little like this with my sex as well, but the opposite sex gives me more anxiety). But at the same time, when I make a connection with some one, I can be very open about my sexual life, problems etc, and this makes me think I've not been so damaged with it.
HAIL ALL THE GODS OF THE GENTILES!