By coincidence, I read this post of yours https://ancient-forums.com/threads/vita-sociale.73707/
I have some experience in family ties and I experienced the same "problem" you have with your mother, with my father. I may have something to relate if you want to talk. It's not possible to send you PM, in your profile, so in case you want to talk you can reach me any way you want or open a thread in English on this problem, to which I will gladly reply.