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What can i do about my "religious" family?

freakinightmare

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As written above my family is "religious". In the sense that they don't believe in the real God we know.
They are aware that I am not part of it, but they still constantly mention their false god and religion in their daily life.
I told them a million times to be respectful. At least while I'm present not to pressure me into their shit, and think they can only talk about it, while if I start talking about what I want they see it as a threat...
Unfortunately I am still not able to separate myself from them. I'm really waiting for that day.

They even begged me to go to church, even though I attacked them verbally many times on that topic and tried to say it nicely, but it was no use.
Luckily, I'm not forced to go there.
Any advice what else i can do?
Thanks in advance.

HAIL SATAN
 
At least you tried to be patient. And that is not easy, especially when it comes to sticking up for what you believe in. You have to be very patient with this sort of thing. And I know that it is a challenge living with a family like that, whether it be your own? Or somebody else's? Especially if you get married to somebody and having to put up with their standards? It's not easy. And sometimes it takes more than just patience. Especially if they are always nitpicking at you and complaining? Worst of all dealing with those that like to snoop through your room and take things out of your room without asking just because? That was the problem that I had with my family. And not allowing you to be you or Express yourself? In any way your feelings and your opinions. It is something that acquires skill. Watching every move they make, to the way they talk and the way they carry themselves? That if they're going to go as far as judging you? Then you have the right to judge them as well. And you do have a right to stick up for yourself and what is rightfully yours. There is nothing wrong with sticking up for yourself and putting things into perspective. You seem like a very strong person. And that's what it takes is a strong person! And you have a right to stick to your opinions and your beliefs. And trying not to get in the way of others in your family? Is no picnic and it's not easy. But then again you don't want to get kicked out on bad terms either? Sometimes you just have to take a diary and write down what you feel is your best interest? And if you are allowed to go into your room and lock and shut your door? Where you can meditate and do your own thing? Which a lot of people don't. And sometimes it pays just to come out with it and let them know who you are and what you are and bite the bullet. And let them know who you are right off. Especially if they're going to go as far as forcing you into something and giving you a guilt trip. And depending on how strong they are and how radical they are with their beliefs? Sometimes it takes fire to fight fire? And sometimes it takes patience and some strategy. Especially if you don't want to lose anything or get kicked out of the house. It's something that you have to work with a little at a time. And you may have to summon the demon to help you? And if you do want to make a dedication? You might have to wait until your parents are out of town or when they go to a grocery store? Just kind of sneak around do things on your own but be careful about it and smart about it.
 
At least you tried to be patient. And that is not easy, especially when it comes to sticking up for what you believe in. You have to be very patient with this sort of thing. And I know that it is a challenge living with a family like that, whether it be your own? Or somebody else's? Especially if you get married to somebody and having to put up with their standards? It's not easy. And sometimes it takes more than just patience. Especially if they are always nitpicking at you and complaining? Worst of all dealing with those that like to snoop through your room and take things out of your room without asking just because? That was the problem that I had with my family. And not allowing you to be you or Express yourself? In any way your feelings and your opinions. It is something that acquires skill. Watching every move they make, to the way they talk and the way they carry themselves? That if they're going to go as far as judging you? Then you have the right to judge them as well. And you do have a right to stick up for yourself and what is rightfully yours. There is nothing wrong with sticking up for yourself and putting things into perspective. You seem like a very strong person. And that's what it takes is a strong person! And you have a right to stick to your opinions and your beliefs. And trying not to get in the way of others in your family? Is no picnic and it's not easy. But then again you don't want to get kicked out on bad terms either? Sometimes you just have to take a diary and write down what you feel is your best interest? And if you are allowed to go into your room and lock and shut your door? Where you can meditate and do your own thing? Which a lot of people don't. And sometimes it pays just to come out with it and let them know who you are and what you are and bite the bullet. And let them know who you are right off. Especially if they're going to go as far as forcing you into something and giving you a guilt trip. And depending on how strong they are and how radical they are with their beliefs? Sometimes it takes fire to fight fire? And sometimes it takes patience and some strategy. Especially if you don't want to lose anything or get kicked out of the house. It's something that you have to work with a little at a time. And you may have to summon the demon to help you? And if you do want to make a dedication? You might have to wait until your parents are out of town or when they go to a grocery store? Just kind of sneak around do things on your own but be careful about it and smart about it.
They are so obsessed with their ridiculous god they have 26 freaking bibles in the house. Don't worry they are nowhere near my room, at least they respected me that much.
And they always ask me why I don't pray when we have lunch together (they are christians)
Mind that I have other problems with them, but that's too personal to say here
I'm happy that at least I have privacy im my room for meditation and other things are concerned
And that they often get in the way of private things like the way i dress etc etc
Thank you for your kind words and for your time :)
 
Do more RTR and you can do rituals for the gods also, ask them to make your family closer to the gods.

I am really not sure if the above is the best thing to do, but you can try for 3 weeks and see the results.
 
Do more RTR and you can do rituals for the gods also, ask them to make your family closer to the gods.

I am really not sure if the above is the best thing to do, but you can try for 3 weeks and see the results.
It is a waste of energy, if they are stupid enough to be slaves to that programme let them sink from it.

There are priorities, and trying to 'save' three random christians is not one of them.
 
As written above my family is "religious". In the sense that they don't believe in the real God we know.
They are aware that I am not part of it, but they still constantly mention their false god and religion in their daily life.
I told them a million times to be respectful. At least while I'm present not to pressure me into their shit, and think they can only talk about it, while if I start talking about what I want they see it as a threat...
Unfortunately I am still not able to separate myself from them. I'm really waiting for that day.

They even begged me to go to church, even though I attacked them verbally many times on that topic and tried to say it nicely, but it was no use.
Luckily, I'm not forced to go there.
Any advice what else i can do?
Thanks in advance.

HAIL SATAN

As others had said, any communications will be hampered by the difference in spiritual status and affiliations between you and them; their souls are tied into Christianity for the time being and this skews their behaviors.

There are spiritual options available to break them out of this, but as you are new, you will want to spend lots of time on building up yourself. Focus on your own advancement and increasing the Satanic influence in your own soul, which will eventually overpower them.

You are correct that they will see your opposition as a bit of a threat, or maybe they will want to "help you" understand. This is where being too aggressive can actually be the wrong response. Rather, do and say things that "lets out steam" so to speak, without actually having spiritual significance.

Personally, I would pretend to be a "private Christian". What I mean is, tell them you are not very open to mainstream Christianity, but you have private beliefs in their god and you keep this to yourself, pray in your room, etc. Obviously you are just saying this, or when you refer to "God" you can secretly be referring to Satan, and so on. Furthermore, just stay neutral when they talk about Christianity, or feign interest; don't scowl or try to counter them, unless they try to make you go to church or publicly pray.

Cede to them the things which are not actually meaningful as a way to protect that which actually is, which is your spiritual growth and the exercises involved in this, as well as your general safety within the family.

By doing this, this gives the appearance of a middle ground, which is easier for them to accept, and therefore makes them less likely to push on you anything else. They will think "at least he is kind of like me, even if not fully". On your end, you have bought yourself security and privacy, from which you can go full force with meditation and actual spiritual development in your room.

When you have the chance, also remember to spend some time having fun with them and building a relationship outside of controversial topics like religion. This can be something simple like watching a video with them, or something. This keeps the relationship strong and prevents them from potentially alienating you, and/or feeling alienated or distant on your own end. Play off of existing synastry and highlights of your interactions with them.

Furthermore, remember always to keep up a strong AOP and connection with the Gods. If the situation is bad enough, you can raise energy or even a full working to deal with them. For example, Ansuz can be used to free yourself from any obstacles from them which may threaten your spiritual development. Isa can be used to bind them from taking action against you. Berkano can shield and hide yourself and room from them, and so on. There are options here.
 

Al Jilwah: Chapter IV

"It is my desire that all my followers unite in a bond of unity, lest those who are without prevail against them." - Satan

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