Azorm
Member
I got really insipired and bugged out with some things about attracting people and relationships that I realized I should share with some people here, in a case they need to hear it.
Last few weeks I am seriously working to get rid of my bad karma, some fears, hang-ups, and I started a munka working to get rid of the ties with my ex lovers too. My current SS partner as well started it at the same date. Suddenly we started having weird thoughts and emotions about our ex lovers, like some things started coming to the surface. But not only that, both of us realized that overall we are attracting bad people to us, certain type of people almost all the time.
Over the years barely anything changed really, our minds look very fixated on getting one certain type of people closer to us, both friends and lovers.
That realization hit us hard, we are basically programmed already to attract same or similar people over and over again. If we would start a working again to attract ourselves „perfect“ friends or lovers to our lives again, we would attract some weirdos, assholes and problematic people once again because for us personally that type of people is what we are used to, and they look perfect to us.
So what looks perfect to us all, and what ideal and interesting for us all is, is a combination of our wrong beliefs, of our past life experiences and ties to some people that are still left, combination of hang-ups and fears, our insecurities, pain and suppressed emotions inside…
Put that bad stuff together with your real needs and real preferences inside of you with it, and bingo, you crafted in your mind what your ideal person looks like. Far from perfect, ofc, but you will be trying to get close to this type or types of people all the time, and even your workings will be attracting this for you.
Try to get cleaner, work on your soul and be realistic with yourself. Often when people say to you- you need to lower your standards - is simply stopping to look for someone in this wrong way, because you will never be happy with a person your mind is making a fav. if you let yourself get carried away with such harmful needs in you. Instead, try to filter through those. Be honest with yourself, try to figure out what is happening in you.
For an example - you might notice you are getting really excited about people who are cool or emotionally unavailable. Most likely you have hang-ups about emotions yourself and keep thinking they are just a nuisance overal, or/and someone in the past seriously scared you away with intensity of their feelings without respecting yours, so you hope this person will not push you much around like that one. Maybe you also keep feeling you don't deserve love. Or you simply got used to be close to similar people. Maybe it's combination of those all. It's on you to understand why are you attracted to those things.
This is not about what you want, this is about what you need.
Get a grip over yourself and your shallow emotions. Don't let yourself be fooled, you can be happy with other types of people as well, even with those who look boring to you at first. Give them a chance.
Also, if you want a Demon lover or Demon friends that's fine. If you want monogamous relationship with a Demon or Demoness i would strongly recommend to first try out polygamous or open relationship with them or with some other Demon to try it out, and to see realistically could you be happy this way.
Get more open, practice astral senses.
From what I see 80-90% males can't enjoy this kind of relationship, and they keep being unhappy if they can't enjoy their love in physical, especially if they aren't really advanced already, while females can get seriously addicted to astral sex and this type of relationship. Usually with females there aren't many problems there.
Last few weeks I am seriously working to get rid of my bad karma, some fears, hang-ups, and I started a munka working to get rid of the ties with my ex lovers too. My current SS partner as well started it at the same date. Suddenly we started having weird thoughts and emotions about our ex lovers, like some things started coming to the surface. But not only that, both of us realized that overall we are attracting bad people to us, certain type of people almost all the time.
Over the years barely anything changed really, our minds look very fixated on getting one certain type of people closer to us, both friends and lovers.
That realization hit us hard, we are basically programmed already to attract same or similar people over and over again. If we would start a working again to attract ourselves „perfect“ friends or lovers to our lives again, we would attract some weirdos, assholes and problematic people once again because for us personally that type of people is what we are used to, and they look perfect to us.
So what looks perfect to us all, and what ideal and interesting for us all is, is a combination of our wrong beliefs, of our past life experiences and ties to some people that are still left, combination of hang-ups and fears, our insecurities, pain and suppressed emotions inside…
Put that bad stuff together with your real needs and real preferences inside of you with it, and bingo, you crafted in your mind what your ideal person looks like. Far from perfect, ofc, but you will be trying to get close to this type or types of people all the time, and even your workings will be attracting this for you.
Try to get cleaner, work on your soul and be realistic with yourself. Often when people say to you- you need to lower your standards - is simply stopping to look for someone in this wrong way, because you will never be happy with a person your mind is making a fav. if you let yourself get carried away with such harmful needs in you. Instead, try to filter through those. Be honest with yourself, try to figure out what is happening in you.
For an example - you might notice you are getting really excited about people who are cool or emotionally unavailable. Most likely you have hang-ups about emotions yourself and keep thinking they are just a nuisance overal, or/and someone in the past seriously scared you away with intensity of their feelings without respecting yours, so you hope this person will not push you much around like that one. Maybe you also keep feeling you don't deserve love. Or you simply got used to be close to similar people. Maybe it's combination of those all. It's on you to understand why are you attracted to those things.
This is not about what you want, this is about what you need.
Get a grip over yourself and your shallow emotions. Don't let yourself be fooled, you can be happy with other types of people as well, even with those who look boring to you at first. Give them a chance.
Also, if you want a Demon lover or Demon friends that's fine. If you want monogamous relationship with a Demon or Demoness i would strongly recommend to first try out polygamous or open relationship with them or with some other Demon to try it out, and to see realistically could you be happy this way.
Get more open, practice astral senses.
From what I see 80-90% males can't enjoy this kind of relationship, and they keep being unhappy if they can't enjoy their love in physical, especially if they aren't really advanced already, while females can get seriously addicted to astral sex and this type of relationship. Usually with females there aren't many problems there.