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My wife cheated on me

David

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She cheated on me a lot, but I was good to her and fulfilled all her requests, which she herself admitted that I was the best person she knew, but when I was going home a few days ago and saw her with a black man . I caught her in bed and found out about his betrayal. I was shocked and surprised that she betrayed me, after all i asked her why but she told me that I have a small penis and she likes to have sex with biggers and she likes to live out her fantasies, now we are going to see a counselor tomorrow but at this point I really don't know what to do.
 
Unless you are posting propaganda, which maybe is the case, you must leave her.

You are only commuting with a person that is of lesser mind basically. The counselor will likely do nothing to alleviate this case. She's a weak mind and if you spend time to "fix this", it will likely backfire in the worst way onto you.

She is undermining you, disrespecting you, harming you, and that is ruinous. You are wasting resources, time and energy with this person, that you will never get back.

Respect will be lost in the relationship and with it, the whole of the relationship.

Get proof that she is doing this, and then move away.
 
She cheated on me a lot, but I was good to her and fulfilled all her requests, which she herself admitted that I was the best person she knew, but when I was going home a few days ago and saw her with a black man . I caught her in bed and found out about his betrayal. I was shocked and surprised that she betrayed me, after all i asked her why but she told me that I have a small penis and she likes to have sex with biggers and she likes to live out her fantasies, now we are going to see a counselor tomorrow but at this point I really don't know what to do.
Damn boy.

When it comes to sex, even if you have a small penis, you can stimulate the woman with oral sex and with your fingers. You can make her climax, this way, and she will enjoy it very much. After you excited her with this, it is much easier to make her climax again, using your penis.

My man, leave her. Don’t treat women, as if they are the only thing in your life, and the most important thing in life. Also, don’t let women be the most important thing in your life. This is not attractive at all, and also not good for you.

Feel the pain now, don’t blurr it out. Process it, deal with it, and leave it behind.

Approach women on the streets with honest and open intentions. Most women like being approached. You will see, that there are many outside, that react very good towards you. This way, you will find someone who treats you like the man you deserve to be.
 
In a relationship you must be clear about your limits and above all you must respect who you are with. If you are not clear about your limits or they are very poor, this will be repeated constantly not only with her, but also with future relationships.

At this point, you should leave her because the relationship is already damaged, it is a betrayal and that can not be fixed with a counselor or a psychologist. You fix it by really fixing yourself and setting high boundaries with the people who come to you.

Take this as a test, this is telling you where you are weak, what you need to polish. Yes, of course we are very emotional beings but when you are clear about what you want, what you want in your life and you have some limits, all these emotions can be controlled.

Get out of there, soldier. You don't need this in your life.

You are wasting your time with a person who does not value you, who insults you and disrespects your body, your being and your soul, even you being there you are disrespecting yourself.

If you feel that this is beyond you, ask the Gods for help. Unburden yourself with it and tell them what is going on.

As far as I am concerned, there is nothing there anymore. You might as well go away and pick it all up from you and leave and start building on that foundation.

Whatever she tells you now is worthless because her actions are contrary, if she tells you she loves you she is lying to you, as she has not proven that. To me the betrayal speaks for itself and she is telling you what she is capable of.

If a person is not capable of controlling his most primal instincts or keeping loyalty in bed issues. do you expect him to be loyal in other things?
 
She cheated on me a lot, but I was good to her and fulfilled all her requests, which she herself admitted that I was the best person she knew, but when I was going home a few days ago and saw her with a black man . I caught her in bed and found out about his betrayal. I was shocked and surprised that she betrayed me, after all i asked her why but she told me that I have a small penis and she likes to have sex with biggers and she likes to live out her fantasies, now we are going to see a counselor tomorrow but at this point I really don't know what to do.
This woman does not deserve you or your time and resources. She's a two-timing unfaithful whore that apparently betrays her race on top of all of this and damn well could have given you AIDS. This will hurt for you to hear and might even anger you but it is the truth and I guarantee if you let yourself be swept under the rug by keeping her she will continuously do this again, continuing to hurt you and very well put your health at risk. STD's aren't something to play with and people who sleep around are bound to get them. You could very well risk a life-damaging disease that tanks you financially as well from chronically having to pay for expensive medicine all the time. Is such a POS of a person worth your LIFE? Because this is exactly what she is playing with. Curse her and leave her to her twisted fantasies allowing them to manifest i the most horrible way for her one day. She damn well deserves it. Once a cheater always a cheater. Run away, FAR AWAY. An SS deserves better than filth.
 
Cheating is abusive and disgusting. Cheating is emotional, psychological and sexual abuse.

- Get an STD test immediately
- If you have children, do a paternity test
- Talk to a divorce lawyer and save any evidence of the cheating

These resources can help you:
 
Its not called adultery for nothing. When your life force has been combined with hers it creates a world of your own with the two of you. Its a sacred joining of your life force fields and much magic can happen. Once the woman cheats it is adulterated meaning someone elses life force is now in the mix and your private world of two is now destroyed betrayed etc. the only thing to do to remain a man is to leave totally and completely, unless you had an open marriage agreement at the beginning. You need to pull your "witch" back out of her and do "Whats mine is mine and whats yours is yours." then cut all the cords as the other mans energy is now connected to yours and needs to be removed and severed. Magic skills can be used to do this. She will try to reconnect so you have to do this over a few times and put up your protective field. When you do this procss you will again feel self confident and stable in your own self. Do this before finding another partner. thats my opinion and it may not be true for everyone. It depends of how you have lived your life in the past with similar stuff.
 
... after all i asked her why but she told me that I have a small penis and she likes to have sex with biggers and she likes to live out her fantasies, now we are going to see a counselor tomorrow but at this point I really don't know what to do.

Totally happened, 6The6One6/TheOneLuciftias. How many accounts do you have to post anti-white, kike, porn propaganda? We both know that what you said is BS, for 3 reasons:
  1. African people actually don't have an average bigger penis size than Europeans. This has been debunked by studies.
  2. Women don't care at all about penis size, as it's been shown that the average size satisfies most women perfectly. It's mostly men have insecurity about their penis size, and the only time women talk about penis size is to troll/shit test men. They really don't care at all about it themselves.
  3. Porn isn't real life. What you said is just a porn scenario, which shows you watch too much porn. You do know that the porn industry hires only black people with huge penis sizes and discriminates against 99% of the others who have a small or average size, right? Porn isn't representative of the average black person's penis size, and even race traitorous coalburners will tell you so.
 
She cheated on me a lot, but I was good to her and fulfilled all her requests, which she herself admitted that I was the best person she knew, but when I was going home a few days ago and saw her with a black man . I caught her in bed and found out about his betrayal. I was shocked and surprised that she betrayed me, after all i asked her why but she told me that I have a small penis and she likes to have sex with biggers and she likes to live out her fantasies, now we are going to see a counselor tomorrow but at this point I really don't know what to do.
This is disrespectful by telling you, you have small Penis. I will like to ask you these questions

1. Do you last long on her when having sex? Because small penis isn't a challenge
2. Do you romance and kiss her well ?
If yes, then divorce her because she can make you die early.
 
Cheating is abusive and disgusting. Cheating is emotional, psychological and sexual abuse.

- Get an STD test immediately
- If you have children, do a paternity test
- Talk to a divorce lawyer and save any evidence of the cheating

These resources can help you:
Exactly
 
You need to leave her ,but since your wife had betrayed a sacred relationship and has been disloyal to you ..Do black magic revenge ritual to destroy her life ...Continue doing revenge destruction rituals everyday till you know that this person life has been completely damaged ..Along with revenge ritual where u curse and vent out all your frustration ,also work on your healing and your happiness.But complete healing requires due revenge ...Do both revenge and healing by wunjo .No body who plays with other person feelings must ever be left just like that ..Satanism is justice ..Without justice and due retribution the pain will be there ..Do both and be happy
 
You made a thread about wanting a succubus before. You also implied you were from either Turkey or the third world and wanted to go to Europe/the USA so where is this black man from? There aren't that many black people in Turkey.

Something smells off here...
Good catch. If someone wants to cheat (astral sex is still being unfaithful to one's spouse), then they can't be mad if their partner cheats.

To everyone here who replied emotionally, this is the internet, we get all sorts of people here. You don't know the full story of someone here. You can't automatically believe that some random on the internet is fully on our side and deserves to destroy their spouse, when they themselves wanted to cheat.
 
Good catch. If someone wants to cheat (astral sex is still being unfaithful to one's spouse), then they can't be mad if their partner cheats.

To everyone here who replied emotionally, this is the internet, we get all sorts of people here. You don't know the full story of someone here. You can't automatically believe that some random on the internet is fully on our side and deserves to destroy their spouse, when they themselves wanted to cheat.
And he has a Spanish username, all very strange.
You made a thread about wanting a succubus before. You also implied you were from either Turkey or the third world and wanted to go to Europe/the USA so where is this black man from? There aren't that many black people in Turkey.

Something smells off here...
And he has a Spanish username, all very strange.
 
Jew/Troll Patrol Status: Moderate - High

I am almost certain this is not serious, the choice of words is too specific, the expressions are too specific, feels like a propaganda thread if anything. Props to our members for being the better people here and giving honest and good feedback to someone who may be trolling. I honestly wouldn't have answered or would've given a snarky response instead.
 
You made a thread about wanting a succubus before. You also implied you were from either Turkey or the third world and wanted to go to Europe/the USA so where is this black man from? There aren't that many black people in Turkey.

Something smells off here...
First of all, I am not in a good mood to be able to give a complete explanation I have been married to that person for three years and before that I had no relationship with any woman because I believed that I should not have a relationship with someone until marriage. As for Succubus, that was four years ago, which I did not do in the past
 
Good catch. If someone wants to cheat (astral sex is still being unfaithful to one's spouse), then they can't be mad if their partner cheats.

To everyone here who replied emotionally, this is the internet, we get all sorts of people here. You don't know the full story of someone here. You can't automatically believe that some random on the internet is fully on our side and deserves to destroy their spouse, when they themselves wanted to cheat.
I feel sorry for your retarded mind
 
Unless you are posting propaganda, which maybe is the case, you must leave her.

You are only commuting with a person that is of lesser mind basically. The counselor will likely do nothing to alleviate this case. She's a weak mind and if you spend time to "fix this", it will likely backfire in the worst way onto you.

She is undermining you, disrespecting you, harming you, and that is ruinous. You are wasting resources, time and energy with this person, that you will never get back.

Respect will be lost in the relationship and with it, the whole of the relationship.

Get proof that she is doing this, and then move away.
Leave the person pronto.
 
I feel sorry for your retarded mind

David we know you are hurt and currently ongoing through a traumatic experience, that's why your offense is tolerated one time here, especially if you did nothing to in particular warrant the cheating.

But be careful how you talk to HPS and others during that state, everyone wants to help you. What HPS describes here is that if your marriage has been failing, it generally happens from two sides. But you shouldn't take the blame here as what they did was in their own accord.

She could do it first or you could do it (theoretically). Generally the way of the punishment cannot be judged on sheer emotion but on the level of the offense.

What you particularly described is a high level of offense. Regardless on if you walk away you have to examine how you treated your partner, however in my experience, some people tend to do these things no matter how they have been treated.

The "reasons" she gave you are totally retarded and it's best to leave her and move on with life. As there are no children involved and not heavy lawyer fees involved, then just walking your way should be sufficient.

Without children there is not even a need to "get evidence" to show to nobody. Since nothing ties you together besides a very simple and weak relationship which has been fully violated, there is not much to look into here.

Counselors can help in many cases, but you will feel mad at yourself and hate yourself if you find out this happens after 3 months again. Many people do not take that counseling seriously In order to take it seriously, serious respect must exist and it must have been a serious lapse.

From what you write a serious person wouldn't respond to you about your dick or something, she thinks she is a teenage adult and learning about her genitilia still during what you consider your marriage. Better to let go.

The only thing to make you stay would be if you don't care at all, like zero, or if there were other serious things that matter more than this. Yet this type of life has to be done upon a mutual agreement, which was clearly not the case.

Therefore what remains is just damage to you as a person. Might as well leave.
 
Good catch. If someone wants to cheat (astral sex is still being unfaithful to one's spouse), then they can't be mad if their partner cheats.

To everyone here who replied emotionally, this is the internet, we get all sorts of people here. You don't know the full story of someone here. You can't automatically believe that some random on the internet is fully on our side and deserves to destroy their spouse, when they themselves wanted to cheat.
I feel like this subject deserves it's own thread, but I just wanted to get your take real quick since we're here. You believe that sexual communion with the Gods should be considered as infidelity towards one's spouse? Perhaps we have variations in our praxis and what qualifies as infidelity, but my praxis holds sexual communion with the Gods as vital, essential even for true spiritual transformation/evolution. Mind you, this is a sacred connection between a God or Goddess for the purpose of attaining Gnosis and Spiritual Advancement. Not to be confused with desiring an astral sex partner (in this case, a succubus) with the sole purpose of "getting off", as if the spirit is some type of sexual servant or prostitute. Big difference in approach, application and intent. I'm single, so I don't have another person who might be disappointed in my spiritual praxis in such a way, but I could understand how a spouse could be upset about it if it wasn't discussed openly or she found out about it later. "You're f***ing WHO?!" :ROFLMAO: Thankfully I've already decided in advance that I won't take a wife unless she is 100% onboard and supportive of my path... including the sacred sexual practices of the Arte.
 
For the future, maybe reevaluate yourself to make sure it's not you at all why she did what you claim so you won't put yourself in this situation again.

Reevaluate not just the type of women you hang it with but also if you're not at fault here at all.

Porn has affected a lot of men really bad that not even being full erect during intercourwe is being seen as normal...

Not only would most women today not even know what flaccid means but if thats all you're going to give ( results of watching porn as mentioned before) , then how can anyone be sexually satisfied.

Sex in a relationship is more important than the average person believes. Most think it shouldn't even be considered if you're not sexually satisfied with your partner and is seemed as selfish if thats the reason to be unhappy. Completely bs.


Communication in relationships is key even during intercourse as well during the first times together where you're getting to know each other.

I can go on but some has been explained before and I think this is suffice.


Move on and away from this incident, though.
 
I'm going to give the OP benefit of the doubt and assume he isn't trolling or just looking to vamp in here. Even if he is, I'm going to address the underlying predicament: you caught your wife cheating with a black man. Now what?

1) What is there to think about? It's over. The more you "try to make it work", the worse it will get. How much pain would like? You can walk away with your self-respect in tact, or you can grovel to someone who already doesn't respect you. Realize that denial is the first stage of grief and breeze past it by completely accepting that it's over. Familiarize yourself with the stages of grief and realize it's going to be a battle, but you either fight it standing up or let it crush you. What's it gonna be?

2) It's beyond salvageable. "Couples counseling" cannot fix this. Any therapist who says otherwise is a fraud. Only you can fix this... by ending 100% of the relationship. There can be no half-measures here. Whatever you had before with her is dead. Accept it.

3) Grieve, but do it privately or with people you have mutual love and trust with that can help talk you through it. You are a spiritual Satanist? Call on the Gods and Goddesses to support you in this grief and loss, to comfort you and help you through this. It's gonna suck for a while, but it gets better. The Gods can help.

4) Counseling for yourself could be beneficial. One specializing in grief and loss would probably be most suitable. Don't try to deal with this alone, you don't have to and you shouldn't. Help is available, so use it.
 
I feel like this subject deserves it's own thread, but I just wanted to get your take real quick since we're here. You believe that sexual communion with the Gods should be considered as infidelity towards one's spouse? Perhaps we have variations in our praxis and what qualifies as infidelity, but my praxis holds sexual communion with the Gods as vital, essential even for true spiritual transformation/evolution. Mind you, this is a sacred connection between a God or Goddess for the purpose of attaining Gnosis and Spiritual Advancement. Not to be confused with desiring an astral sex partner (in this case, a succubus) with the sole purpose of "getting off", as if the spirit is some type of sexual servant or prostitute. Big difference in approach, application and intent. I'm single, so I don't have another person who might be disappointed in my spiritual praxis in such a way, but I could understand how a spouse could be upset about it if it wasn't discussed openly or she found out about it later. "You're f***ing WHO?!" :ROFLMAO: Thankfully I've already decided in advance that I won't take a wife unless she is 100% onboard and supportive of my path... including the sacred sexual practices of the Arte.

There is no singular way to look at this as human beings are different, and form different relationships according to their maturity, needs, wants and circumstances.

If one seeks prostitutes it's better to go with actual prostitutes and not try to "use" Demons for this, it's a matter of courtesy. It's also 99% chance one doesn't have this in reality it's imagined if that is the case. Demons don't just need to "get off" like humans do due to biological needs.

If you are with an outsider who will get a seizure if they hear this, you could keep it a secret. In this case however a useful thought to ask is, are you treating the person you are with with any degree of seriousness?

In the end of the day our personal relationships and their outcomes are solely on us.
 
I feel sorry for your retarded mind
Although she is giving her opinion, this seems to me to be out of place.

Insulting a High Priestess will not lessen her pain. It is understood that you are going through grief, but this has nothing to do with insulting her.

People just want to help you, I see a lot of positive comments, telling you the obvious. But this did cause me a lot of discomfort.

Just because you are going through a serious time doesn't give you the right to want to pass that dirt you have on to other people.

Respect is paramount in this and the HC High Priest has been more than kind in his response.
There is no singular way to look at this as human beings are different, and form different relationships according to their maturity, needs, wants and circumstances.

If one seeks prostitutes it's better to go with actual prostitutes and not try to "use" Demons for this, it's a matter of courtesy. It's also 99% chance one doesn't have this in reality it's imagined if that is the case. Demons don't just need to "get off" like humans do due to biological needs.

If you are with an outsider who will get a seizure if they hear this, you could keep it a secret. In this case however a useful thought to ask is, are you treating the person you are with with any degree of seriousness?

In the end of the day our personal relationships and their outcomes are solely on us.

Take what works for you and don't take what doesn't, it's so simple to do and you don't have to resort to such false things as an insult.

This place is sacred and while there are times that there are debates between users in an argumentative way, with this single comment gives much to think about.

I really hope it is something real and not just someone hiding in a screen attacking the high clerics.

This is really unacceptable with them.
 
You made a thread about wanting a succubus before. You also implied you were from either Turkey or the third world and wanted to go to Europe/the USA so where is this black man from? There aren't that many black people in Turkey.

Something smells off here...
From the comment he made and what you say, then it is more than possible that he is an insider.
 
I feel sorry for your retarded mind

Please refrain from saying such things to HPS Lydia as she is trying to help you.

I know that in situations like this it can be a lot of stress but the fact is that here people are trying to help you, not hurt you and they are not retarded.

You should leave the woman who cheated you and focus on getting divorce ofc, and then set new beginnings in life. I am sure if you ask the Gods you will find an ideal partner for you. Don't let stress override your spiritual thinking.
 
And a small complementary note: if someone asks for a succubus, it is not for +18 things only. That is all just bs as succubi / incubi are also here for our spiritual betterment and communication, if they are actually  real.

I recommend everyone to read HPHC's sermon on this matter, it is really explanatory and detailed:

 
I feel sorry for your retarded mind
I have been both the cheater and cheated on
at a few points in my life. So I feel it would be best if I try to give you some advice here. I've been on the receiving and the wrong end in terms of fucking up a few times in my life.

Most relationships unless they are too far gone can be deeply rectified if both people put in the work. The decisive factor on this is if both people are willing to change what has led to this.

Yes sometimes there can be serious offenses. We ultimately have to weigh if what we are trying to save is worth it. Only you can make that decision at the end of the day. You may have this marriage completely lost and walk away. Or there may be a chance big or small your wife will change and stop this completely and stay loyal and abandon this.

Really approach this calmly as misplaced and strong emotions make or break things that are this sensitive to handle. It requires you to collect yourself even if you are ready to lose your mind and freak out.

We are all here for you. Just please understand that ultimately. Please don't call us names and insult your satanic family. Steady yourself.
 
I feel like this subject deserves it's own thread, but I just wanted to get your take real quick since we're here. You believe that sexual communion with the Gods should be considered as infidelity towards one's spouse? Perhaps we have variations in our praxis and what qualifies as infidelity, but my praxis holds sexual communion with the Gods as vital, essential even for true spiritual transformation/evolution. Mind you, this is a sacred connection between a God or Goddess for the purpose of attaining Gnosis and Spiritual Advancement. Not to be confused with desiring an astral sex partner (in this case, a succubus) with the sole purpose of "getting off", as if the spirit is some type of sexual servant or prostitute. Big difference in approach, application and intent. I'm single, so I don't have another person who might be disappointed in my spiritual praxis in such a way, but I could understand how a spouse could be upset about it if it wasn't discussed openly or she found out about it later. "You're f***ing WHO?!" :ROFLMAO: Thankfully I've already decided in advance that I won't take a wife unless she is 100% onboard and supportive of my path... including the sacred sexual practices of the Arte.
I was replying in support of what other members wrote, that this seemed like a certain type of post with the usual bait.

As for what qualifies as infidelity, this depends on the individuals. Different people have different views on this topic. I believe that a person's sex life is their own business, their own responsibility, and everyone should do what is best for them, using wisdom.
 
Although she is giving her opinion, this seems to me to be out of place.

Insulting a High Priestess will not lessen her pain. It is understood that you are going through grief, but this has nothing to do with insulting her.

People just want to help you, I see a lot of positive comments, telling you the obvious. But this did cause me a lot of discomfort.

Just because you are going through a serious time doesn't give you the right to want to pass that dirt you have on to other people.

Respect is paramount in this and the HC High Priest has been more than kind in his response.


Take what works for you and don't take what doesn't, it's so simple to do and you don't have to resort to such false things as an insult.

This place is sacred and while there are times that there are debates between users in an argumentative way, with this single comment gives much to think about.

I really hope it is something real and not just someone hiding in a screen attacking the high clerics.

This is really unacceptable with them.
A few years ago, when Lydia was not the high priestess, was only hooded cobra who led the community and worked hard for the it and shed blood and sweat to advance the community's program, he just tried much more than Lydia, like now. So Lydia can be the High Priestess to everyone else, which is fine, but from what she said, I don't agree with her, because I was committed to her,on the end I think most women would give rights to those of the same sex, even if they don't?
 
Now at this point my consultant assured me that I have the right to pursue a divorce due to infidelity, especially considering the distance between us. After asking her to leave, I reached out to a lawyer to discuss the divorce process. I aim to move forward with the divorce soon, though I'm concerned about financial matters. It's important to me that she doesn't take money that shouldn't rightfully be hers in the process of our divorce, ensuring a fair resolution.
 

Al Jilwah: Chapter IV

"It is my desire that all my followers unite in a bond of unity, lest those who are without prevail against them." - Satan

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