When I was young and stupid I actually tried.
Almost got disowned if I didn't miraculously somehow save face, I swear a demon put the words into my mouth because there's no way it would've gone as smoothly as it did and actually work, as far as I knew I was done for. I never tried again or even hinted for the next several years.
Take it from me and don't bother. Keep to it in secrecy, in time people will find out the truth on their own, there's no point in risking your position or even your safety.