Why don't you be more honest and just make a post that says
"Stormblood, Shael, Ghost in the Machine, Tell me what you think about me!"
Since that's what you really want. :lol:
I like you, I think you're a Good Guy like your name used to say. But I also think you should be more sensitive and intuitive, like Aquarius said. I think that you have good intentions, and you are usually right, but you don't have enough sensitivity to be able to explain your ideas in a way that people can accept or really understand. You care about people, and you are trying to help them and do what is good for them, but the way you explain some ideas is too unclear and bold. It gets other people to over react and get mad at you, but they don't even really understand what you were trying to say to begin with. So they start arguing against you, and you start arguing back, and it just makes everybody look dumb. And when there's an argument like this, it shakes you up and you have an even harder time trying to explain your side of it, so people misunderstand you even worse. So you should be more sensitive to be able to explain things in a clear and gentle way the first time, so people don't misunderstand you and dumb arguments like that don't get started.
I'm usually able to see what you really meant and what you were really trying to say, so with most things I usually agree with you and see that you were just trying to help. But I see how other people less sensitive than me would skip over what you are saying without feeling your true intention, and then they get stuck on some words or phrase you used and they decide to get angry. But I don't think it's fair to be angry about when they are missing your real message. You aren't always careful of the way you explain things, so the way that you say things sometimes looks like you mean something else, and it makes misunderstandings. I think in almost every discussion, there has to be at least one sensitive, intuitive, gentle person to be able to see what the other person's side is. Both people in the conversation can be sensitive like this, or it still works if just one person is. But when both people are insensitive, then nobody really understands anyone else, and they start fighting back and forth over misunderstandings and just being dumb. That's why you get involved in arguments like that, because you are insensitive in your communication, and then other insensitive people read it, and there is a friction between you. If any of you could feel what the other person really meant, and felt how they were trying to help, and felt what their perspective really is, then there would be no friction and there would be nothing to argue about. Usually those arguments are with those kinds of dry, hot, insensitive people that are just always trying to be seen as better than everyone else, and always trying to prove each other wrong to make themself be the "big winner," because people like that are not good at feeling other people's perspectives.
