I'm going to live with my mother in a few days and I realized that she can make me think a lot about things that I usually don't care about, an example is this: yesterday we were talking and everyone in my family is tall, few short and I came from a short person ( I'm 5'1 female ) my father and she are not short. They've been separated since I was born and my father was the one who took care of me, we didn't have much money and he did his best to give me everything I wanted, she said that I have a growth problem and my father didn't want to spend money on me so he pretended he didn't see how small I was, I don't think there's an ideal height but I have big hands and feet for my height so I started to think there's something wrong. Everything she says becomes a complex for me, one example was my nose, she said I should have surgery when I was a child and to this day I hate it.
What should I do to not go crazy living with her and full of complexes and problems?

