Oh, I was going by what the JoS Astrology calculator said, which was 0'something degrees.
I thought the limit was 4/5 degree's, where it can still be counted into the next house?
And is the limit different for luminaries? Does the 10 degree limit only apply to regular conjunctions rather than house cusps?
JoS Astro seem to use a general system that aligns with other astro services, which can be the reason why they do not include 8 degree conjunctions for the major aspects. This is just speculation on my part though.
It clearly says that for the major aspects; the conjunctions, squares, trines, and oppositions, can be extended to an 8-9 degree orb, not 10. Pluto is extreme and intense, so that orb can be widen for certain aspects/transits, same for Saturn in synastry.
You have overlooked some information and details here. You need to study the links I gave you, thoroughly. Many of your questions are actually answered in the Astrology section of JoS, and the Astrology PDF. I have spent 10 years of learning Astrology from JoS, and there are still minor things I have overlooked as well. There are still much to learn. When you have learned the foundation the JoS brings, which is excellent, you can begin to learn more on your own, as you can clearly see what is false or not.
I base my answer on the information you provide, so it is limited of how much I am able to actually interpret and help, since I do not have an overview of your chart (please do not share this).
With Lillith/Chiron, for me it's quite accurate but perhaps it's because it's making hard contacts to two inherently powerful planets, thus amplifying their traits.
Do what you feel is best regarding Chiron and Lilith. I do not include them in my readings, and probably never will.
My Mercury (communication, speech) is in Scorpio, so would this automatically connect and amplify the traits of Pluto in the 3rd (and thus, all of the traits of the fixed star contacts as well), since both of their "themes" are the same, particularly in regards to communication/speech.
Yes, Pluto will further amplify its effects here. You may communicate with great intensity and could have a tendency to harbor important secrets. It’s essential to guard your emotions and keep them in check, as neglecting them could lead to a nervous breakdown over time.
Can having two planets in the same house/sign act similar to a conjunction between said planets, or at least "appear" that way in a weaker form?
Two or more planets in the same house strengthens the affairs of that house. Two planets can be in the same house, but in two different signs. This is explained in the Astrology pdf.
"Luckily, these planets are placed in Sagittarius, which gives you protection in dire circumstances" --- For some reason, even when I'm just walking around doing nothing, I attract a lot of enemies and people who want to fight me due to misunderstandings, especially from black's. And random crazy near-death situation's. Every time I go outside something weird happens, like a car crash in front of me, or someone threatening my life over nothing. However, these people always seem to be neutered or "dissolved" in some way... could this be as a result of having Jupiter in the 7th? It's also within 1.5 degrees of the 8th House cusp, which maybe "expands" my contact with death which is ruled by the 8th house? But how would this play out if Jupiter is retrograde?
Hence, keeping your energies high, cleanse your soul, and raise a strong aura of protection. Jupiter retrograde brings inner peace and contentment, channeling its expansive energies inward to nourish your soul. Retrograde planets can create a sense of restriction or feeling held back somehow, as there are delays. However, their influence often matures and blossoms after your first Saturn return, typically between the ages of 28 and 30. This can make someone less restricted in that regard, and make their second part of their life more successful.
Jupiter in the 7th is very positive, as it offsets a bit the malefic influence of your Aries DC. With your Jupiter here, If you adhere to spiritual practices, and raise a strong aura of protection, you'll be fine and well.
And if the two planet's are powerful enough, such as Mars/Pluto, can this act similarly to a stellium simply because of how powerful/dominating the energies of those two planets are? As in, could they gain the same level of importance in the chart as a chart ruler/co-ruler?
No. An emphasis on a particular sign, or multiple emphases, adds additional layers to your personality, character, and nature. But their influence will not be equal to a stellium or co-ruler, unless they are part of this. One I know has an Aries emphasis and a Gemini emphasis; suggesting someone who is outgoing, quick-thinking, and thrives on new experiences, though they might sometimes act impulsively and selfish (Aries) or seem scattered and fidgety (Gemini) due to their need for constant stimulation and variety.
And what does it mean if many of my planet's are with their counterparts? Sun next to Moon, Jupiter next to Saturn, Uranus next to Neptune etc.
Check their aspects in JoS, it should be at the very bottom when you read a planets' signs and houses. For example, Jupiter/Saturn influences a hard outlook on life, and there can be much responsibility (usually within the affairs of the house(s) they occupy).
If a planet is retrograde, do I inherit the traits of the sign it's in as well as the standalone planet, or just the planet in relation to the sign/house? For example, if Saturn is retrograde, do I obtain Saturn/Capricornian/10th House traits, or just "Saturn in Taurus 8th House" traits? And would this also apply to Uranus and Neptune as well, despite being generational influences?
No, the energies of the planet turns inward in your soul and soul development. Retrograde planets affects the self and self-perception. The energies of a retrograde Saturn is something you will draw in and project upon yourself. For example, you become very self-critical and hard on yourself, and you may even lack boundaries. You will not inherently acquire a 10th house Capricorn with a retrograde Saturn. The same goes for a retrograde Uranus and Neptune.
Also, is it possible to mute the expression of my 1st House? I feel totally naked, and I don't like that people can see my emotion's so easily. Or is it too difficult to overcome, since it's my ego and the "virgin" part of the soul which apparently never changes. I hate it though, and I dislike being so agreeable, yet also being rebellious. My soul feel's pulled apart by these contradiction's. Would it be damaging to try to change?
I come into contact with retard's all the time, and I really can't hide my contempt for andrapod-like behaviour, no matter how hard I "try" it's written all over my face, or else they'll assume I'm scheming and trying to be Machiavellian. It's genuinely a threat to my safety, which is why I ask.
You can perform Sun squares and other workings using Runes or Sanskrit to enhance your character and strengthen your sense of self. Always strive for excellence. Emotional maturity will develop gradually as you progress spiritually. Additionally, you can perform a working during a Waxing Moon in Taurus to benefit from its emotionally mature and calm nature.
There was some black guy who's family is a bunch of gang member's. And he wanted to fight me after school, but then the day before his leg's became paralysed and his brother was killed in a gang fight, so he lost the "will" - and that is the dynamic that tends to play out elsewhere but less drastic. Or they just suddenly change their mind's, and want my approval/forgiveness. At some point, because of this dynamic I just became a recluse and stopped going outside until I discovered the JoS, and now it's happening all over again... but what I don't understand is, I'm a very nice person and treat people with fairness. My Sun/Moon AC is literally in the sign of Libra, so I'm very much oriented towards peace/diplomacy and it's also visible all over my face. I don't know what the fuck is wrong with these people and why they're always trying to start on me, or what kind of karma could cause this level of situational irony.
Again, your Aries descendant and Mars in Sagittarius in the 3rd house suggest that conflict or assertion may arise through communication and your immediate environment (3rd house). For example, this can attract fiery, blunt individuals or situations where boldness and confrontation can happen.
Sometimes, people become so absorbed in their own concerns and agendas that they project these onto others without consideration or care for anyone else. Their focus remains fixed on fulfilling their own ego's. In such cases, there is only so much one can do, but the most crucial thing is to keeping ones vibrations high through Power Meditations, Yoga, and raise a strong and steady aura of protection. This will ultimately acts as a shield by deflecting any negativity and preventing it from taking a hold in your life.
Again, your questions are thoroughly addressed in the Astrology PDF. Take your time studying it without rushing this. If something feels unclear to you, or you sense you've missed something, pause for a while and spend time in meditation. Afterward, revisit the material with a refreshed perspective, which may help you expand your understanding and grasp the concepts more fully and clearly.